You can never force someone else to stop thinking or doing as they please. All you can do is tell them you don't love them, don't want to see them, have no interest in them anymore, and walk on. If she pesters you, you can take out a temporary restraining order if it's gets really really really bad (like, stalking). Otherwise, it's one of the prices you have to pay for breaking up, having that other person still wanting you for a while. Just go on with your life. Eventually, she'll find someone new or else figure out she no longer wants you either.
2007-02-14 10:41:01
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answered by Inundated in SF 7
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If you are concerned with how she feels about you, then perhaps you still care for her. If you really want her to get over you, then, just ignore her. Women hate that, and eventually find somebody worthy of their love. If you really want a girl to dislike you, be the biggest dick. Women hate that too. At least I do. I'm the type that loves alot of love and affection. If you don't give it, then, she will leave you alone. If that's truly what you want.
2007-02-14 10:45:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't talk to her
Don't enable the feelings she has by "being there for her"
clean breaks are the best
if your in school, ignore her or straight up tell her you can't be around her because there hasn't been enough time and distance for each of you to continue even as friends and that you do not want any type of relationship with her right now.
honesty and directness do best when speaking of relationships.
obviously she knows that you don't want to be with her b/c you're not together-give her time.
2007-02-14 10:43:04
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answered by Anonymous
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stay in her life.. don't just move out suddenly.. hang out with her still but just as a friend... also find a date for ur self and her.. and make it a double date and after that keep telling her how great that guy is and how great the girl u are with is ...if u move out suddenly from her life.. that would make her still thinks over and over and cant stop loving u... just do what I said.. it will work
2007-02-14 10:43:33
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answered by persian_ladyyy 2
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You can't.All u can do is make it very clear to her that it is over.Do not give her any reason to think there might be a chance.Plus stay away from her and don't talk to her.That is after u make it clear to her that it is over.Otherwise everytime u talk to her u will give her the feeling that she has a chance.So if u are serious then stay away from her.Good luck
2007-02-14 10:42:28
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answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6
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Honesty is quite helpful. If your previous girl friend gets mixed signals from you, its your responsiblity to let her know that you've moved on.
2007-02-14 10:43:30
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answered by Anonymous
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I would wrap her in saran wrap and then tell her you did it because you don't care for her the way she want you to. The saran wrap will really help get the point across, plus its just plain fun.
2007-02-14 10:39:32
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answered by bassdog65 4
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You can't shut off a woman's feelings no matter what. Just don't do anything to lead her on keep your distance and wish her well.
2007-02-14 10:40:23
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answered by Noree 3
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she can think all she wants- bring her back to reality. tell her that its over, and u have moved on. It may or may not work, depending on how stupid she is (no offense).
2007-02-14 10:40:07
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answered by Anonymous
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sleep with one of her friends. the closer the better. not that it's a nice thing to do, but i think it would work.
2007-02-14 10:40:21
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answered by gail s 1
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