He brought me a card and candy but when i asked him to spend time with me he tells me "I bought you a card what more do you want" I'm angry and confused... what do you think about this...and what should I do?
2007-02-14 10:27:57 · 19 answers · asked by memyselfandI 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i'm saying the truth. Unless he said that in a joking way, he's not for you. Or anyone for that matter.
2007-02-14 10:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Produh G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's is a very commercialized holiday.
If this is how he treats you every single day, then dump the loser.
If he is just doing it today, it might be because he's like me and doesn't believe in choosing one day a year to celebrate love and affection. Cuz really, if you care for each other, do you seriously wait until February 14th to tell each other?
Either way, gage how you feel about him. Did you just want to spend the day with him becuase it's V-Day? Or because you really care about him and want to spend every waking moment with him?
2007-02-14 19:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by xylina_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl... my best friend went thru the same thing today , but worse. she's been dating this guy 4 4mths and this dude had the nerve to come to skool today without bringin her a gift. the sad thing is, she had went all out on buying him the perfct gift. when she asked him wut was up,. he was like, i didnt think you wanted anything. i was bout to go up to him n slap the stupid out of him. he knew she was pissed so they ended up not even really speaking for the rest of the day. she aint get no gift or no time.
sooooooo.......... my real advice 2 u.............
let him no that spending time wit him is way more important than a card and candy.... and your day would be much more special if u could jus share it wit him.
2007-02-14 18:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh don't worry,, Valentines day is just a disappointment for everybody. Too much pressure put on it for it to be perfect. I had the flowers and card but didn't see him, I'm just used to it now! I don't let it worry me anymore.
2007-02-14 18:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i would say wait to cool down before you say anything to him.. explain to him how you felt. he may have just been in a hurry, stressed, or busy at that time. lots of guys are like that, sometimes they just dont feel like valentines day is so special and they dont understand what the big deal is..
2007-02-14 18:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.contreras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wasn't feeling that good. One day he maybe may never leave your arms, and another day he won't talk to you. He still likes you and all but some times he needs time alone. just like you.
2007-02-14 18:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad. You have a right to be angry. I would wait until you calm down and then let him know how you feel.
2007-02-14 18:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by blah1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him his card and candy back and go find a new boyfriend
2007-02-14 18:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oooooh!! wa eva!!! (hand out in face!).. but he'll call you when he gets horny I bet???
break it off.. wake up and find someone who is actually your friend!! so????.. what are you baseing this relationship on???? sex? phyiscal atractss??uh... oooooOOK thne if that' it. then you get what comes in witivneh that package you ordered.. goood loookin... sexy... takes me like a man when he 'wants me'..
oh yeah and.. never really cares too much about my feeling or me....in generall
dissed On V-day+ deal breaker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
things are good untill they are not good anymore ..THEN you move on.. just a fact of self respect!!!!!.
good luck.
2007-02-14 18:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but he doesn't sound like a very nice guy and he sure doesn't seem to care about your feelings.
2007-02-14 18:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋