Do girls like guys with this personality?

Question

I am a bit shy when I first meet new people, but when I get to know them better, I become substantially more outgoing. I am rather nerdy, and am not a fashionable dresser by any stretch of the imagination. However, friends have described me as one of the friendliest people they've met (not to brag) and also someone with a very realisitic outlook on things. I am a very goal driven person; that is if I set my heart on acheiving something, I will become somewhat single-mindedly driven to acheive that goal. I value acedemics highly, but also value my friends highly.

I'm 19 and in college and girls don't like me at all (in that way; I do, however, have friends that are girls). I have never been in a relationship in my life.

I also have no problem showing my nerdiness.

Answer 1

you sound like a nice guy, but being a little on the shy side might be the reason why many girls aren't interested in you. soon enough you're going have to break down and make the first move. take it slowly though, and keep trying around. soon enough someone will appreciate your personality =)

and about the whole unfashionable thing, don't worry. not too many girls take that much notice, but if you do want to change your look, maybe one of those girls you know can take you out shopping. it may be bothersome for a you, but girls think it's fun to give makeovers =)

good luck!

Answer 2

Hey, you are only 19. I am somewhat older than you and I can tell you through experience to be what you are and not act to be any different. There is a match out there for you. Just be patient. After being married for 15 years and divorced, I wonder why God had not sent me my true love back then that I have now. The love I have now is more realistic, not just a fantasy driven thing to do when I was younger. Hang in there. She will be at your side unexpectedly.

Answer 3

I'm sure the right girl would love you if she got to meet you, but if you a nerdy and shy, why would she WANT to meet you? Maybe you should get one of your girls that are friends to give you a makeover. Why a girl? Because girls know what they like. Ask a fashionable girl (preferably a friend) to give you a makeover and take you shopping. With a good look, you will catch the girls attention. Then with your charming personality, make her fall in love. ♥

Answer 4

Keep being the way that you are, eventually someone will see the qualities that you possess. In the meantime, develop your own style of dress thats fashionable but still true to you. After that don't concern yourself with being in a relationship. Concentrate on graduating college and any other goals you have for yourself. Trust me, in due time you will find the right one.

Answer 5

Just a suggestion, but maybe you shouldn't be in a hurry to experience a relationship at this time. Being in college, you should probably focus on your studies and not let anything interfere with that, and, believe me, relationships have a tendency to interfere with a lot of things; not that they are bad or anything, but they obviously require a great amount of commitment and time to make them work, and I seriously doubt you're looking for something superficial. Just give it time, the right woman will come along when you're ready. You're still young and have many years ahead of you.

Answer 6

definite.... If someone searching for a severe relationship with all and sundry, they could seek for his or her personality because that's the flaws which will very last always and not in any respect get diminished. splendor from outdoors receives fade as even as someone get old, in case you adore someone for a fashion they look; even as they old, you received't want them anymore top? besides, possibly "some" woman clone of guy because of their seems, historic past, or wealth, yet no longer all lady are an identical. all and sundry are different. i wager all those females on your college that day are only after guy "look" than personality.

Answer 7

Dear Shy guy,
There are ladies who do like guys with your personality but you need to be less shy and more out there before getting to know the girls. Normally, girls are used to having guys approach them; therefore, if you do not approach a girl that you seem interested in, then you could have lost your opportunity. Also, when approaching a girl, you need to have a lot of confidence, cause girls will know ;). good Luck

Answer 8

I read it all. It seems like you're a very nice guy. Unfortunatley girls do not want the nice guy. Try being cocky and funny towards them. Shows you're funny and cofident, girls love it. Anyways, try dressing smart, smelling good and you'll be good. Don't be overly nice to a girl (this does not mean that you are to be a jerk to them, just don't agree with everything they say etc) Girls like men who can take charge etc. Also don't ever feel you need ONE girl, try liking a handful and playing them off each other.

Answer 9

You want chicks? You 1st have to move the potato from the back to the front of your pants. You see chicks see the bulge in the back, will think you crapped your pants, if its in front they believe you have a big johnson!!! You can have the personality of a door mat, but showing off your african weight set, will have all the hot chicks flocking to you on their knee's! Believe me nerd boy, you'll thank me later with a 5 star best answer!

Answer 10

No - and I don't mean the nerdiness or shyness - I mean the neediness. You should be confident that women will love your personality - whatever personality you may have. It's the CONFIDENCE that women are attracted to - not the particulars.