Would you Adopt This person?

Question

I'm over 18YO you can consider me your sister or daughter or friend or a member of your family, if you are serious you can click on my username and send me a message, I don't have a family anymore, and if you are not interested in adopting me, do you know anyone who would be interested in doing so, if so, please do tell them about me
Thank you

To the first 3 answers, I cannot make friends nor get a job in where i live, i cannot even get out of my house for some reasons

I'm impresioned by my family :( for unfair reason, i'm very serious

hunter: tell me how to run away

Dear Ms Mat Urity: i cannot get out from my house 'cause my the so-called family do not allow, and the reason for it is completely against the human rights, PLEASE SOMEBODY HELP ME

Hello lyndsey: yes i'm being held AGAINST my will

Btw I googled ''Adult adoption'' Actually there is such a thing, but i can't find info about it in UK just in USA

Hello Phattygirl: I was looking for any organization who would help me but i can't find any , i have the home phone number but if i will give it to you i may loose my life if my family will find this out, i'm talking seriously, that's why i'm looking for a help through the internet, when i said that i don't have a family anymore, 'cause....i think it is better to don't say it here, they do not let me go out for a reason i can't say it here :(
thank you for your offer to be my friend, i know that i'm classed as adult, but i have nothing, if i will get out from this hell, where shall i go? that's why i need a family :( i'm not a welcome person i'm my family anymore, so my punishment is to stay at home forever and that's against my basic human rights :( but Alas nobody cares and that's sad

Hi Sandi: yes ''we-our family'' have access to the internet , but they may cancel it if they will know that i'm looking for help through it :(

Dear Julz i had a similar idea but in this way i may loose my life :( i thought about it a lot but anyway please keep in touch :(

Dear lynn i have someone who knows about my situation she suggested me to escape 'cause she told me that she cannot help me IF ... :( i have nobody she told me to look for a family to stay with, I'M NOT LYING HOW I WISH THAT I AM JOKING BUT I'M NOT AND THIS KIND OF JOKES AIN'T FUNNY AT ALL I SWEAR THAT I'M SERIOUS

Answer 1

Why, where, what. Okay I have three grown daughters and raised a many other children, I know one more won't matter, but, honesty is a prerequisite to adoption, I don't want to know what it is you don't want to tell me, but don't give me some line that is totally from a third planet world. I will listen and try to help, if that is what you want, but you must come right because half stepping doesn't pull it in my life. If what you are saying is the truth, you need to be out of where you are, you are 18, considered an adult in most states, what is the hold that is keeping you where you are. Stepping out on "Faith" it works, but again, if I can be of any assistance, please do not hesitate to give me a hollar. God Bless.

Answer 2

Sounds like you are very low. Don't know the reasons why you don't have family any more but it's sad whatever. It is very unlikely anyone would adopt you from your posting, not for reason of age etc but because there are some people who just like posting things like this for fun. I am taking you seriously. I think you are using the word 'adopt' to mean you would just like to belong somewhere in any form and be involved in dinners, celebrations etc with a family. Try and not stay at home and think about this, get out there must be something you can show interest in?, if you aren't too well off there are lots of free things to do. By meeting people and building up friendships which doesn't just come at the drop of a hat, but takes a good while before a real closeness is developed you will eventually have the companionship you yearn for. Also at 18 your are very likely to meet someone, fall in love and have your own family one day. Wishing you much happiness in the future. PS Have just noticed your 'add ons' after the posting. If you can't get out the house why? If you are disabled everywhere has essential services that would help you. If it is you just can't bring yourself to leave the house, afraid no one here can help you. You must IMMEDIATELY seek help.........lift the phone and speak with your doctor. If you've tried it and the doctor didn't help demand a second opinion. It's not natural to feel like this and caused by underlying illness.

Answer 3

where are you, may be you could meet up with someone willing to. Do you have access to a phone? you could ring an organisation that might help you. what do you mean you don't have a family anymore, and then say you are improisoned by them? if this is serious you need to get outa there if not this is a sick joke!! i can be your friend, but you are classed as an adult x

Answer 4

You are already adopted...here on Yahoo. Loneliness is a terrible thing...it can be torture...I understand that.

I know that you have said in the past that you don't want pills etc. but I think your problem has gone beyond loneliness. You are obviously depressed. You know you don't have to suffer in this way. Once you have a referral from your GP, you can be properly assessed and properly looked after.

Your issues of loneliness can be looked at and they will help you to get involved with different groups and activities with people like you. Never despair....I have been severely depressed and thought I would take my life because of it...I could not imagine that life could be good again. I was wrong...life is good again...I had to put lots of effort into it...medicine does some of it, but YOU have to work hard on it to...by trying to get yourself involved in whatever is around you and that can be very hard....but it is the path back to a happier life.

Please see your doctor.

Best wishes.

Answer 5

The best thing for you to do is contact legal authorities if you are being serious. contact the police watch for them coming don't let you family fob them off when they arrive just start screaming for help they will take action there and then, after that i would get myself a lawyer on legal aid and take legal action against your family, or if you attend school tell someone there a teacher that you trust they will help you

Answer 6

you are classed as an adult now,but it sounds like you just need someone to love you,not adopt you,
I think you need to speak to a doctor who can put you in touch with a professional,who will be able to help you sort out and handle your feelings,i was very moved by your question,no one deserves to be without a family or love in their life,your add ons concerned me a whole lot,why does your so called family not allow you out??
This sounds serious,please get help,are you being held against your will? i cant adopt you,but i can be your friend,good luck hun.

Answer 7

Aw what happened to your family? Im really sorry that you feel this way? Go out and meet some nice people and enjoy yourself! Go to an evening class or something and you may meet some nice people!

Answer 8

If your situation is legit, then you have to make contact with some legal authority, the police, CAB.
Surely there must be others who know what is happening to you and can help.
Are you in the UK?

Answer 9

you're too old to be adopted through any official channels. I'm sorry you feel so lonely, you need to get out and socialise and make some friends

Answer 10

If your message is serious then people can only feel very sorry for your plight.

Being alone in this world is the worst.

May some love and luck shine on you......

xxx