my boyfriend broke up with me four days ago. he said you're too young for me. we are still friends but i love him a lot.
the problem is that sometimes when i talk or when we are sitting together in our cafeteria, he grabs me and starts hugging me and kissing me.I like it though. but he has a new girlfriend and he see her everyday at work.And when i got irritated i told him go kiss your girlfriend but he said i will but i wanna kiss you first. maybe he was kidding but the way he still holds me and hugs me, makes me confused.
so guys please tell me what do you think he's thinking or what's in his mind
(for your help we also had sex when we were together and i think he still... help me)
2007-02-14 10:22:07 · 12 answers · asked by star11412 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is playin u an his new gf tell her bout it..an kick the chumps butt 2 the curb
2007-02-14 10:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by ToddMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know it sounds like he may not be over you, he broke up with you cause he thought you were to young for him. Maybe he is trying to have time, and let you get older, then get back to you, you know some guys do try to wait til the girl gets older, and then he may not be getting the love he got from you from his new girlfriend, and so he may think that you and him can have like an affair on the side while he is with this other woman. I would be really careful with this guy. Just ask him straight out what the thinks he is doing.
2007-02-14 18:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let him kiss you and hug you, he has a GF how would you feel in her position, you should have respect for your self, you deserve better than that, he was probably going out with her while he was still with you, 4 days and he has a new gf?, no, i think he already was with her, even for a longer time, show him that you will not stand for that, and make him feel that he wants you more than anything, but you are sorry 'cause, you already have someone else, I know, it's hard, you probably love him, but you are going to end up hurting yourself, and again, and again,...
2007-02-16 13:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by NONONO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is wasting your time. If he's going behind his girl's back, then he would go behind yours as well. He already has a girlfriend four days after the end of your relationship? He might have been messing with this girl long before you two broke up.
Distance yourself from him; this relationship isn't healthy and it's not good for your self-confidence.
2007-02-14 18:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know...it seems like you're in high school and yes. you are young and you have other guys to "experiment" with. you don't have to stick to him and make him USE you for his "fun." save your lips, words, body for the true one girl. just go out with other guys and maybe he'll stop using you. step away from this situation and look at it in a stranger's perspective. this guy breaks up with his gf and gets another one in four days but still kisses his ex? c'mon. that's ridiculous. stand back and look at it as you do it to a painting. g'luck and don't get into more trouble girl! :)
2007-02-14 18:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is clearly playing you. He wants you there for backup in case his new girlfriend doesn't give him what he wants. My advice is to stay away from him and if you can't clearly explain that you do not want him touching you anymore. The guy is nothing but trouble and when his new girlfriend finds out what he is doing you will be to blame to.
2007-02-14 18:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by shorthappyfunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk and knows you will fall weak to him. He's playing ming games and you deserve better. Don't stroke his ego anymore. You have to take all the strength and dignity to let this guy go.
2007-02-14 18:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wuts to get. he is a 2 timing playa who needs two hands to hold. tell him to break up with the new new girl or step off.
2007-02-14 18:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by annabanana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your broken up and that his conduct is not o.k. What he's thinking shouldn't matter, but I know that he probably thinks he can have both of you. Don't let him do that. He is a player.
2007-02-14 18:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is keeping your hopes up in case he has to break up with that other girl...you might be his 2nd choice so he is being good with you just in case he needs a fall back chick
2007-02-14 18:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋