I'm not trying to come between family and friends but me and my boyfriend live with his family and everytime we go somewhere his brothers and friends are always around and lately we get no alone time...it's like he doesn' t even notice not to mention the video games what should I do?
2007-02-14 10:18:45 · 8 answers · asked by memyselfandI 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
let him have his fun. trust me, if you don't let him have time to do the things that he likes, then he will NOT make time to spend with you.
2007-02-14 10:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My ex boyfriend, a grown man no less, spends 5-6 hours a day playing online poker...
When we were together he would stay up until 3 and 4 oclock in the morning playing this game. He figured that as long as he was "present" that it counted as "quality time" together.
2007-02-14 10:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by LilMama74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to spend more time just the two of you. You can't make him get rid of his friends, nor should you want to. You have to learn to compromise together. If you can't get him to spend more time with you alone, then break up with him.
2007-02-14 10:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by zippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some choices to make. Are you okay to settle for this? If not - ask him if he wants to move away with you. And if not - decide if you want to move away on your own and find somebody who will pay more attention to you.
You can't control him. You can only control yourself.
Good luck.
2007-02-14 10:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and don't talk to him at all, he will start to notice this and feel the way you are feeling.
Or just get a new boyfriend
2007-02-14 10:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punt. No learn to kick his butt in video games.
2007-02-14 10:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by PaT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to find a new boyfriend.
2007-02-14 10:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for a new boyfriend. dont settle demand more.
2007-02-14 10:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋