I know it's an issue. I was just wondering if something as simple as a number can stop a person from "falling in love" with another.
2007-02-14 10:07:27 · 7 answers · asked by mstrayg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a difference between falling in love and having a relationship. I'm talking about the act of having that happy in love feeling when you're attracted to someone & getting to know them.
2007-02-14 10:08:58 · update #1
no it does not and its not an issue with me --- i dont care how many partners my lady has had --- she is with me now and her past has made her the person i love --- as i hope she does not care how many partners i have had for the same reasons
2007-02-14 10:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it should affect if you can fall in love with someone or not. Here is some advice that you should take. Unless this person is notorious and you have heard rumors that they sleep with X amount of people, I would not ask about the past partners. It will only cause you to have trouble with your relationship that your trying to have now. What someone does in the past before they meet you is really none of your business. It doesn't have to be an issue unless you want it to be. If you think the person will not be faithful then don't pursue the relationship, there is a difference.
2007-02-14 10:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that numbers should not be of importance but for some people they are. It always depends on the kind of person you are dating.....and their "number".
I dated two guys with numbers over 30 and both of them cheated on me, but they were the best in sex. The guys that had a number under 10 were the most loyal and sweet. To other guys were virgins and they didn't mind of my "number" nor the others. Only one guy cared about that an the relatinship did not work at all. After all a "number" should not stop you from falling in love with someone. And of you think a person will not like your "number" just don't answer the question and let them wonder.
2007-02-14 10:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told. I once met this really nice guy and I thought we were great and so did he untill ne asked how many partners I've had. Well after hearing my answer somehow everything fell apart. In the begining it was all about I need you and I'm in love with you, though his heart has been broken. we even began to talk about getting married. To me I just realilzed that it wasn't the amount of partners I had but the fact that I had so much independence compared to his other girlfriends, where he was always there first. And of that they were allowing themselves to be taken in by him and not having a say in the realationship. Because guess what he eventually married one of those girls that had no voice and somehow found himself over to me during the course of the first month off marriage. I turned him down!!!
2007-02-14 10:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by truelfye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not so much as the numbers of people they've been with but the relationship itself and how they were treated in the different relationships. I mena if they abused their partner or they were beat up or trashed and dumped and how they felt....trying in sorrow to get over someone they gave their heart too. It's hard to forget hurt and pain and though we oft ignore when jumping into a relationship we remember how stupid we are when we get dumped each time and vow never to jump in again, yet we do because love puts us all in a good place and spring is right around the corner...
2007-02-14 10:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I asked my current boyfriend about his past. And yes it can be an issue if you let it. If you dont and you let yourself fall in love and the love is returned why worry. But some find it harder to look past than others. I choose to let love happen.
2007-02-14 10:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Bunnie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
truthfully it might make me think harder on the relationship before i let myself fall for someone. i don tthink that it can truly affect who u love though
2007-02-14 10:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by xxbrandy87xx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋