theres this guy that i met the beginning of the school year and we were basically "together" but not going out for like 4 months. we really liked each other and everything was going great. then around december, he started to think this other girl was cute, but we were still together and he still had feelings for me. it was getting really annoying because she liked him and kept trying to flirt with him. so i made him choose between us, and he chose me. we hooked up, nothing serious, after that. now just recently like a couple weeks ago he told me he needs to end it between us b/c he needs to focus on school.. (hes been doing really bad and his moms pissed). he said he wants to be cool with me and loves who i am. so we decide to end it, and then i see him with HER. now they have a fling and he ASSURES me that he didnt plan it to be this way and that he never meant to hurt me. he keeps giving me mixed signs and everyone thinks he still likes me. should i let him go, or try to get him back
2007-02-14 10:01:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my guess would be that he REALLY likes you, you're the sort of person he wants to be with and can't stop thinking about etc. (i.e. the sort of liking that means he can't concentrate on school work). she's just someone he's attracted to & can have a fling with, he doesn't think about her lots and it's a bit of fun.
don't be down on yourself about it - concentrate on enjoying your life, if something happens with him again in the future you'll have lots to talk about xxx
2007-02-15 07:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋