i kinda like my bff. he is super nice and we tlak constintly. alot of ppl who dont know us closely thought we were going out bc he is so good to me. he went out with my other bff 6 months ago and says he has no feelings for her. also i dont know if he likes me. he tells me i am pretty alot. i dont want to seem desprate and ask him out...what sould i do.
2007-02-14 10:00:12 · 10 answers · asked by annabanana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Test the waters...
You should be able to get him alone and try doing stuff that a bff wouldn't do... like caress him or if you really are feeling bold, land him a quick kiss. You might be surprised how well that works. You will have no regrets about it if you try and it doesn't work out. At least you know then...
Best wishes...
2007-02-14 10:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As wonderful as it might seem to date this guy you're so fond of, I wouldn't advise it. The reality of a lot of relationships is that they're going to fail eventually and being friends after breaking up can be hard. I would advise you to look elsewhere because boyfriends come and go but friends are forever,
2007-02-14 10:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't see how you'd seem desperate. It's very simple, just get it together and ask him out. But, please, don't do it on the internet or through a friend, if you do it that way - it's already a sign that the relationship won't last too long. You need to communicate in person.
2007-02-14 10:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by sebwitha3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not desperate to ask him out, it's bold and courageous. If you like him, try it. Since he tells you you are pretty and strongly asserts that he has no feelings for your other friend, I'd assume he is interested but just afraid to make the first move.
So go for it!
2007-02-14 10:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by kiddo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The strongest relationships come frim the strongest friendships. Let him know you think that it's time to take the friendship up a level.
If you need some more advice, feel free to email me.
- The Date Doctor
2007-02-14 10:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. The more you get to know eachother as freinds the easier and better it will be. And you always wait for a guy to go after you.
2007-02-14 10:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the start save on with one guy 2d dont thieve him decrease back from ur chum what if she on no account rather liked him then u ought to rather complicate ur dating along with her purely ask her and get her to tell u whate rather occurring and dont circulate 4 her bro that should get mssy and as for the third one shop him 4 l8ter
2016-12-17 16:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself what is more important to you. his friendship or his love? imagine if u broke up, you would also lose his friendship. maybe ask him to a dance as friends. "friends"
2007-02-14 10:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he likes you!!! That might get him to ask you out!!!
2007-02-14 10:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by hottie 123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him
2007-02-14 10:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋