i have never had a good relationship. always beaten or verbally abused. I am currently in a friends with benefits relationship. He sleeps with me alot, buys me nice things, pays for dinner, cuddles with me, but constantly rememnids me not to get attached. It is too late... in my heart i feel like he feels the same way but is afraid to express it. but i am scared that i will ruin what we have.. but what exactly do we have? I love him.. alot... but am i settling? or am i being patient? any advice would be appreciated!
2007-02-14 09:55:05 · 3 answers · asked by aleesha4u2see 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am a very clingy person... i think he keeps asking cuz i am so needy.. he doesnt mind fidelity, he doesnt want "love" is all he will say
2007-02-14 10:44:36 · update #1
Any man stupid enough to commit to one woman - is a man not worth any woman's time
Most males who are honest will admit they need lots of sex with lots of women - its part of the natural order
Accept him for what he is
2007-02-21 18:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, honest communication is usually better than dishonesty.
Second, you probably have the skill set to communicate your feelings WITHOUT pressuring him much, if you put your mind to that challenge.
Third, you haven't said what ASPECTS of commitment he minds. Is it the whole financial house/kids thing? Is it sexual fidelity? Think about that -- you surely have some clues -- and you may get more insight. Obviously, you have to be very selective about discussing it with him, for fear of making him think you're pushing for commitment.
Uh -- why does he keep reminding you not to get attached? I mean, why does the subject keep coming up?
2007-02-14 18:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should enjoy what you have for now, time will tell what direction you should go.
2007-02-22 10:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋