My fiancee likes to go do things with her friends almost every night. We fight a lot because it seems that she is never here with me. We have three kids together and I am the one who makes sure that they eat and have baths. She gets mad when I ask her to stay home one night with me and the kids to eat dinner or to watch a movie. She will tell me sometimes that she does not want to go do anything but stay at home with me. But whenever someone calls she gets up and runs to see what they want instead of staying with her family. I get mad at these things cause I am home alone a lot with the kids. It's like I am the only parent there for them. She gets mad when she ask me to do something and I say no so that way we are together for the night. I think that when she is out all the time that she is cheating on me. And I do not want to think that. I want us to have a happy relationship together. But it takes two to work and I want to change my attitude so she will change her ways about things.
2007-02-14 09:54:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Think its time to sit and really tell her what you think and how unfair it is to your kids and you that she is gone every time and ask her if she is cheating and go from there.... its not fair to your kids or you to live like that and to even consider marriage you need to rethink all of this... good luck
2007-02-14 10:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 04:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋