Any tips on getting a girlfriend? I never had a girlfriend before nor do I have good female friends. I hear that just because a person has a female friend, that doesn't necessarily means she will become his girlfriend. And that is true. I have heard that 1st appearance matters a lot so will it be better for me if I stop biting my nails and talking to girls? I know for a fact that my voice is a really bad turnoff. My friend say I need to impress a girl with my other qualities. What is the other qualities that I need to find to get a girlfriend? I am 19 years old already. and please do not answer something about money, since if i give a lot of gifts and spend lots of money on her, it would be wasting since it would be too nice and that would be a turnoff. and I wouldn't have a girlfriend. I would just have only a friend.
2007-02-14 09:51:30 · 7 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all I think you need to get over worrying about this stuff then...just do it. If there's a girl your interested in approach her. Many factors will depend on whether she'll take it further with you or not. With that in mind, I get interested in a guy when he looks interested in me and is FUN and funny, outgoing, friendly, has goals in life and is working towards achieving it, making time for every aspect of his life (school, work, family, friends, etc.). I guess you can say this is when you AREN'T looking for a gf because your so busy with LIVING your life that some lucky girl notices a wonderful guy (you) and she wouldn't mind taking a chance with him especially if you are humble and good looking and shows his interested in me (the girl), and knows how to treat a lady he likes.
2007-02-14 14:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all be yourself, second don't be a push over women like a little challenge and third a woman knows right away how far you will ever go with them ask a woman to get some coffe or drinks dutch of course don't just ask one woman ask a few it usually takes 5 no's to get a yes don't just ask in your office work or the same place but try an experiment and ask 5 girls a week out just coffee or drinks it is a process you will not find one waiting for them to ask you out or in your bedroom or out with your friends go soemwhere with one friend split up a little and just have some fun shooting pool or darts or bowling find a weird or interesting way to get her number or attention (I have used some sleazey ways to make a girl find me but that is another thing altogether) and above all else no woman wants a downtrodden man have some confidence as well as some calm it goes a long way
2007-02-14 18:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bear_Polaroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first thing you need to do is stop all the gift giving and spending lots of money. Girls like guys who are not constantly calling them, sending flowers, etc. They want a guy who has a life, who doesn't call them everyday, who is not all over them. Even if you are not busy pretend you are busy, call only once a week, dont spend too much money on them.
2007-02-14 17:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm... focus on who you like first and always look cool and be nice and dont be afraid to kinda flirt and if ur still in skool idk if you are then if a girl u like sits behind u and u have trays under the desks that everyone uses as foot rests grab her feet and just like shake em and play around in a flirty way and make girls feel special and treat them nice and make sure that u r not to much of like a pushover so like giving them everything they want. and act like a jerk kinda not too much but a little then like open the door for them and be a gentleman but like if they want something act like its a problem to get it but its really easy cuz not to be sexist but girls like the feeling of control
2007-02-14 18:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Shane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. talk to girls. find out what r their likes and dislikes are, what do u guys have in common. if u find a perfect match ask her out. make sure u tell her ur feelings. and once again just be yourself. good luck.
2007-02-14 18:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by The Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking...I know it sounds crazy, but that's what I have done and it has worked for me every time. I'm 32 btw and in a secure and loving relationship.
2007-02-14 18:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by ivy_trick_mess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be yourself and just trust that it's going to happen sooner or later... Love isn't something you can force. Just trust that it's going to happen sooner or later. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there.
2007-02-14 17:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋