if my boyfriend asks me why i love him, then what do i say?

Question

he asks me this all the time...he tells me tht he wants to have a relationship but im afraid tht if i say i love him becuse he's special or becuse he treats me better than other guys do...then he will ask me "hows tht..." ...and hes a mexican and im white.....please help

Answer 1

Tell him that you find his insecurity to be adorable.

Answer 2

Just tell him that you love him because he's a Mexican. Just kidding. To me love means valuing another persons needs and feelings above your own. I'm probably oversimplifying it, but that's what I think. WHY you love someone, on the other hand, is usually really complicated and can't be narrowed down to just one reason. If he asks you tell him that there are a lot of reasons that you love him, it's not just because of one thing, and give him a couple of examples.

Answer 3

So are u saying you only love him because he treats u better than other guys?? That does being mexican or white have to do with how you feel?

Answer 4

you should simply say you love him for all that he is not neccessarily what he does. The best answer is "I cant tell you why - but I know it real" his response will be most likely if you dont know why you love me then how can you love me. You say "you are looking at it half full - Real love is a love without compromise, judgement, rhyme or reason - My love for you is Real. Being that I cannot tell you why should prove to you that I love you without doubt for if I had a reason for our love and that reason came to pass then what would we have. (i.e. I love your hair, lips, voice, the way you smell or treat me) if these are gone so is the love. I love you on a higher level --- Real Love no boundaries.

Holla

Answer 5

Just tell him the truth in why you love him. If he asks why tell him that is why. like if you said because your the only one that has ever treated me like im the only girl in the world and he asks why say that is why because you make me feel like all other girls are oblivious. ( just an example) Just always remember to speak from your heart and how you feel. good luck.

Answer 6

When you tell someone you love them, tell them what it is about THEM that you love. Make it personal about them.

For example, I have three children who are all very different. When I tell them I love them I make it personal and specific like:

My 20 year old daughter: I love you because you are so sweet and thoughtful. I love the way you look in that outfit. I love the dessert you made for your grandmother.

My 19 year old son. I love you because you worked so hard fixing the brakes on my car. I love the way you sing that song. I love you because you did what you said you would do.

My 14 year old son. I love you because you stood up for yourself with your friends. I love you because you remembered to bring in the mail. I love you because you are so generous.

Answer 7

Perhaps you just need to put some serious thought into why you really do love him. Tell him the truth, no matter what it is. If he asks you to explain then do so. What does his race have to do with anything????

Answer 8

You dot have to do something that you dot what to.
No mater if he's mexican or not.
If you're afraid just tell him and if he dot understand just live him you can do better.
Good Luck?

Answer 9

There needs to be something about him that is unique. You know the answer to this. It may not be something in word. Perhaps a feeling. Think about it, it should come to you naturally.

Answer 10

think about that question why do you love him what made you first look his way do you like his personality? think of all the different things you love about him and tell him what ever comes to mind

Answer 11

If he is going to be controlling, clingy or make you uncomfortable, it is time to move on. He should be able to accept what you tell him and not make an issue of it. If he is insecure, you can't fix him.