Is this abnormal?

Question

I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've never even been on a date or kissed. Just in case you wonder, I'm not drop dead gorgeous but people say I'm pretty and I don't have a bad personality. Am I giving off a bad vibe or something?

Answer 1

I don't think it's abnormal at all. It's not the case for most girls in the United States, but that certainly doesn't mean it's wrong or weird.

If you find that you're interested in a guy, maybe ask him out, even if it's just as friends at first. Or include single guys you know when a group of your friends goes out.

Answer 2

no not at all. It's perfectly normal. My husband has only dated 8 people in his entire life. He's 33. You don't need to change yourself so don't go thinking -you- need to change. I was 21 when I went on my first date. Guys in general can be painfully shy. Just give it some time and it will come.

And just so you know, drop dead gorgeous girls have hard times going out with people too. I generally say that if you have been in a lot of relationships from teens onward, it means you settle too quickly.

Answer 3

It's not abnormal. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 21. I'm 22 and now I am head over heels in love with an amazing man. But thank God I waited until I knew it was right for me. I don't know when your time will come, but trust me, chances are, it will. Don't ever lower your standards for a guy. Stay true to yourself and the right man will come along.

And just to let you know, your boyfriend is going to LOVE the fact that you've never been kissed. It may be nervewracking at first, but it's going to make him feel soooo special! :)

Answer 4

Its not normal, true you are minority. But its not wrong! Being with Majority doesn't mean you're on the right side. I guess it means you have high standards when you meet a man.
Try thinking if you have issues, like you think you're too good for a fat first date! or something. The right man (or woman) will come, just don't shove opportunities that come your way.. Maybe.. in a subconscious level, you push people away because your better off alone.. and then you judge yourself, for thinking you shouldn't feel OK alone... dont fret! thinking about it sort of blocks your energy.. I bet you have lots of Man-friends.. its OK.. if you don't feel it-- don't fight it!

Answer 5

As I am reading your other questions you have on here you have been talking about your boyfriend. So I don't know if you are lying on this question or what. But, if you aren't lying I don't really think it is a big deal. Try going out with your friends to meet guys and eventually you will find the right one for you.

Answer 6

I hope its not abnormal cause I'm only 3 years younger and in the same boat! :p I don't think its different at all, some people are just different then others and theres nothing wrong with that. Its your life, you choose how to live it.

Answer 7

Maybe you are giving off an unavailable vibe. Try doing your differently or wearing makeup or something. Good luck.

Answer 8

Lucky you. I did so much stuff before i met the right girl. I regret every bit of it since the day i met her. i wish i could go back in time and not do anything with any girl and wait for her.... but i wasnt wise enough to think that. oh well lol. i made mistakes and i regret them everyday!

Answer 9

No, I don't think that's abnormal. You're just waiting until you find The One. Nothing wrong with that.

Answer 10

do a lot of guys ask you out? maybe you shouldn't reject them then and go on a date with a guy you like. by your pic you look pretty hot, but usually the looks just don't do it for me. personality is the big thing.