I have been dating this guy for over a year. We have talked about living together and marriage. I do love him and he claims he loves me. I have issues with him receiving pictures from his old sex buddy and having her cell phone number on his phone. We have a joint cell phone account and I have noticed that he has called her a couple of times when he claims that he is allowed to talk to his freinds. Personally I belive that when you are talking about loving someone and marrying them, we purge those types of things. Am I wrong to demand to him that he notify her to stop sending pics and to ask that he delete her number off of his cell phone?
2007-02-14 09:32:28 · 5 answers · asked by Suzie K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its not wrong of u at all. if no sex had happened than that would be diff. but there was sex in the pic and no offence but he must have liked it to make her his sex buddy. so i think that it is wrong. the only thing u can do is live together and see if he is serious. but if u dont want to move in and then have him keep doing that i think he should stop. its wrong to talk to soemone or get pics from them if ure supposidly not interested in them anymore.
2007-02-14 09:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by xxbrandy87xx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you have a problem with him staying friends with his ex-girlfriends. you say sex-buddy... what is the dynamic of their friendship? what was it and what is it now? because he's obviously with you, right? are you saying that it's impossible to be friends with someone you've had sex with? do you always want to be the only one in a general vicinity that your man has been with and if anyone else comes near, it's like a hull breach on star trek?
if it really bothers you, you should talk to him but he's going to be defensive about it, more than likely. don't start throwing around ultimatums about who he can and can't be friends with because you'll probably lose there as well.
good luck!
2007-02-14 09:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i keep all my old bf's numbers and pictures and i talk to them requlary. I dont see anything wrong with it, since we are not together anymore, there is a good reson behind it, so its not like i want them back in my life for sex or for anything more then friendship. Ask to meet his ex gf, and maybe she is a great person and you will want to be friends with her.
2007-02-14 09:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by Diana R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your are correct!! you have EVERY RUGHT to deny him her #....and if he did "love" you then he would appreciate the fact you are being honest with him and he'd respect your feelings and not associate with her...cuz wat the hell does he need to talk to her about?? seriously..... so your doing the rite thang...
2007-02-14 09:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
damn you are one sick bitches
2007-02-14 09:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Period 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋