I can't take his lies anymore! I'm constantly finding things that he has some lame excuse for. He hides things from me, he signs up for singles sights, he goes to this girl's house at least twice a week!!! I've put up with so much suffering because I thought he loved me and now I'm realizing he takes me completely forgranted. For a week and a half I've thought of nothing but leaving. I don't want to. I want to be with him. I keep hoping things will change and for ONCE I'll be with someone who loves me back and cares about me. Now I find this question about him wanting attention from other women and I want to leave NOW! What have I been doing this whole time? Why did I support him? Why did I stay with him? Why did I care what happened to him? But mostly... why did I say I love him? Why did I trust him with my heart? And he keeps lying like he thinks I'm stupid enough to believe his lame excuses... I just don't know what to say or do...
2007-02-14 09:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by rawkinpunkbabie86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do u ask stupid question?? Like u don't know u should dump him..???
2007-02-14 09:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i think u should just leave him. no looking back.
even u can see that he's taking u and ur love for granted. there's nothing wrong with loving someone, but there is something wrong with staying with someone who doesnt give a hairy rat's *** about you. {excuse my language}
just leave him. i know it's much easier said than done but it's all for the best. one day you'll look back and realize he's nothing but a waste of your time.
maybe u could try and be friends with him at that point but until the point when you can hold your own head, stay FARRR away from him. and dont fall for his tricks. that's regression [going backwards]. then you'd be back at square wondering how the hell you got there.
do something good for yourself on valentine's day sweetheart. leave him.
2007-02-14 17:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by .|CrayolaKidd| 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust a guy with your heart, he doesn't deserve your love. If it were me, I would dump him immediately. But if your heart tells you to stay with it, listen to it.
2007-02-14 17:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Breinn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok what do you want , do you want to stay or leave ? u need to make up ur mind!!!!! First you need to be consistent. This question alone, shows how indecisive you are. Get it together!
2007-02-14 17:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to leave him, its hard i know, but you must
just say "i dont want to be with you anymore, i dont feel this working out"
and when he says "but baby please!" do NOT give in to him, say no
2007-02-14 17:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋