Definitely no special age - so don't feel pressured. I know lots of girls your age ( and have raised two daughters) who don't and did not have boyfriends at 14. I am not being old fashioned when I say that most boys and men do not find it attractive to date a girl that has had multiple boyfriends. After all - who wants to date someone who has been with half the boys in their class? When the time is right, you will find someone you are attracted to. In the meantime, learn to like yourself and continue to develop new interests and meet new friends. These are all things that will make you more attractive to the opposite sex when you are ready. Also - don't believe everything the other girls say. You might be surprised to find out they might be making up stories about their dating life just to cover up.
2007-02-14 09:35:32
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answered by arkiemom 6
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14 is still very young. Don't rush things. When the time is right, the time will be right. If you're not ready, then you're just not. Personally, I think 14 is too young to have had a boyfriend! Group dates, yeah, that's okay, but an actual boyfriend? No, you are definitely not weird. You are just fine. Some girls don't really date until they go to college.
2007-02-14 09:32:14
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answered by Anonymous
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No, it happens when the time is right. Don't rush. Get to know and love yourself first. Then you can make better decisions when you get a boyfriend. You have plenty of time for boyfriends. I was 17 when I had my first real boyfriend and my first kiss.
2007-02-14 09:41:46
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answered by Dee 1
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I think you might be slightly weird if you are 100 years old and never had a kiss or a boyfriend.
2007-02-14 09:35:33
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answered by Anonymous
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kissed is a lot different than having a bf id start with the bf and then work up to kiss i think the age that is embarrassing to not have had a bf is 15-16
2007-02-14 09:31:44
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answered by Hayden W 2
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14 is not old. I had my first girlfriend when I was 14 and 1/2
Fran how do you have relationship without being kissed?
2007-02-14 09:30:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Many people have nevver been kissed and/or had a boyfriend. It's perfectly natural to go even your whole life without a boyfriend. Just don't let it bring you down.
If my advice doesn't solve your problem, feel free to email me.
- The Date Doctor
2007-02-14 09:30:53
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answered by Anonymous
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hey dont think about other people they are them not you you should always wait until you think its right its not theyre decision its yours so dont give into peer pressure i mean im 15 ive never kissed a girl and this friday will be my first date im taking this amazing girl to a school dance and ive never let my friends get to me about it so dont worry about it when you think the time is right then it will be the right time
2007-02-14 09:33:25
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answered by jax 3
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im 16 ive never had a girlfriend, nor many female friends, and i think its weird, but all the girls think its cute and all the guys think im a wuss, ive never been kissed either, so if anyone thinks ur weird, i got your back
2007-02-14 09:30:00
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answered by Tae Kwan 2
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No its not weird. Its better as far as im concerned. Concentrate on school. It will happen, dont worry.
2007-02-14 09:31:46
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answered by ♥mama♥ 6
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