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My little girl seems much more advanced than all of her friends, even though deep down im proud I would never say it 2 my friends, its just her speech is way ahead, I know 5 yr olds that dont speak as well as her. How can I really tell, is there some kind of intelligent test I can do with her, or what should she be doing at this age, thankyou

2007-02-14 09:23:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference Preschool

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I'm sure you must be proud,I was proud too when my oldest daughter was advanced in speech just like your daughter,and my youngest daughter was able to read very well at the age of five.I encouraged them and did not bother if they were ahead or not . Just go ahead be proud, but please don't put any stress on your daughter,let her enjoy her childhood, play with her,read her stories just don't bother about intelligent tests,there will be more other things to bother about. cheers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-17 16:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I dont mean to get you down, but all kids usually have some subject they excel in, and some they dont. They are all individuals at this age, it will even out for the most part in the next few years. Does she spend a lot of time with adults? This could be the reason.

An intelligence test or any other kind of test would just tell you what you already know.. that she has advanced speech! Won't change anything..

2007-02-14 10:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 2 0

My daughter was the same way at that age. Just keep working with her and reading books and keep her mind active. There is no need to jump on the genius band wagon and get her tested. when she starts school if they feel that she is gifted they have classes for this. My daughter did a lot of things early reading and writing at 4 but now she is 10 and is only a little above average so this is not always a sign of genius. Just let her be a preschooler and the most important thing right now is socialization at this age.

2007-02-14 16:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0 0

My oldest daughter is the same way. She is 6 now, but she has always been more articulate than her peers. She was speaking in complete sentences before she was 1, and could recognize all of her letters and could count to 30 before she was 2. However, being a teacher, I know that her academic prowess was not as important at her age as her social development. I did not want to put her into situations that she was not developmentally mature for, even though academically she was far beyond her years. She is in first grade now at a private school, and she is blossoming! Articulation is not everything. Yes, my daughter is still academically ahead, her teacher gives her more difficult assignments and she reads books almost a fifth grade level. She lives for school work! However, she is right where she needs to be concerning her maturity and social development. I think as she gets older, there will be more opportunities for to move up to where she could be challenged academically, but I feel that you shouldn't rush things. Have patience! I would not have her tested or anything, just support her interests and see where they lead, and encourage her to be a silly, sweet, wonderful little girl.

2007-02-14 14:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by tamathy 2 · 1 1

Although she may be gifted with speech, it doesn't mean she would have a high IQ. Parents can make the mistake on concentrating too much on their childs strengths and forget the weaknesses. Girls tend to do quite well with language and speech anyhow. Don't forget all the other subjects as well or you might be disappointed in a few years time after she's undertaken an IQ test.

2007-02-14 10:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Give her lots of stimulating toys, read to/with her, talk to her a lot, listen to lots of fun songs. I know how proud you must be, but let her be and play as a 3 year old. The temptation is big to keep pushing her ahead but remember that no matter what, she is still only 3 years old. An intelligence test will tell you nothing you don't know already. Above all, enjoy your time with her because they grow up so fast.

2007-02-14 09:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 5 · 4 0

I think that this is normal becausse my son every since he was 2 he has been so smart and I never putt him through certain tests, he is now 5 and he is reading at the top of his kindergarten class he can count to 200 I mean I think that's good for a 5 year old. So just don't push her just let her be her and you will be proud of her.

2007-02-15 00:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-04-27 18:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Check with your local school district. They have Parents as teachers advisers in most districts. They would possible be able to do evaluations with her. At the very least they can guide you to education programs. I suggest looking for a Montessori Children's house ie preschool program. In that setting she can advance to the best of her ability. Children learn more before they are five than they will at any other part of their lives.

2007-02-14 09:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ruairi 2 · 0 0

It is one thing to help a child to succeed and learn, it is another to pressure a child so much that the joys of childhood are lost. Sure, not all children learn at the same rate. Be proud of your child and when she gets to school see if there is some kind of evaluation.

2007-02-14 09:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Kilroy 4 · 2 0

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