Hi, i'm Alice, 14 and I still havent had my first kiss, is this normal? Its not like im frigid or anything, its just no boys seem to like me. I think I am pretty good looking and stuff, so I dont think its about my appearance. So what shall I do??? Thanx,
Alice ^__^
2007-02-14 09:21:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry you will get your first kiss soon but don't be impatient
2007-02-14 09:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by JennLee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you worry. I am 22 years old and I didn't have my first kiss until I was 21! I'm not saying that you will have to wait that long, but I waited because I wanted to make sure I shared that moment with the right man. I found him and we're hoping to get married soon! And it's good that you think you are good looking; don't ever let a boy make you think otherwise. Keep your confidence, focus on school and friends, and one day, when you least expect it, the right guy, who actually deserves to kiss you, will!
2007-02-14 09:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by HappyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Alice, I'm Clara. I'm 14 too and I haven't had my first kiss either. It bothers me sometimes, like it bothers any girl that hasn't been kissed when all of their friends seem to have already. But I figure it has to happen eventually. Don't worry about it too much. Hopefully, for both of us, some guy will show interest, and we'll get our kisses.
2007-02-17 07:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by nameless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alice dont worry !!! Beleive me you wont go through the rest of your life without kissin someone .. allthought your pals will be bragging about all sorts of things .. the truth is ,, most people at your age, lie a little about what they have been up to .
It seems like you have two options ... kiss someone just for the sake of it , so that you can tick the box and comply with the expectations of your pals .. or just wait till it happens ...
Oh also ... just so you know ... guys really do like girls who can think for themselves and dont follow the croud .. lets face it ... would you prefer a guy who was comfortable being himself in the face of all the crap and peer pressure that guys go through or someone who just did stuff cos his mates thought it was cool ?
good luck Alice ..
2007-02-14 09:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by blogmart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it, really. Im 17 and I never really liked any girls previous to this school year, but I finally found the most amazing girl ive ever met. Its not a race, and from all the relationships around me, i have come up with two peices of advice. Dont take just anyone because you are feeling that everyone else is movin faster than you, above all, dont rush things.
2007-02-17 20:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by meh. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have my first kiss until a month before my 17th birthday. You're only 14? A freshman in high school? Not having a kiss yet is completely normal. Don't worry about it. It will happen when it happens.
2007-02-14 09:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone doesn't have to have a kiss by the time they are 14!!!!! Nothing wrong with not having your first kiss this young!!! It takes time and is the best if its with the one you love!! hang in there don't just get yourself down about it....You don't have to do anything about it...don't force urself upon someone just to receive a kiss!! hehe It'll come naturally when your inlove!!! :)
Take care :)
2007-02-14 14:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! Hi Alice, no worried i have not my first kiss yet and im 17. Its going to be a while for me that for sure. O yeah i'm a guy.
2007-02-17 19:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax gurl I'm 15 and had my first kiss when i wuz 5 in day care and now it been 9 years since i seen that the boy i kiss!!!
2007-02-14 09:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by sexysingle_2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about it, loads of people (including myself - I was 17) are 'late bloomers'. I think you appreciate the meaning of a kiss more when you are older. And PS: most of the people you know that claim to have kissed people probably haven't, so don't let anyone make you feel bad.
2007-02-14 11:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by MARIANNA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 15 almost 16, my first kiss was when i was 12. Seriously dont worry about it, my first was a game of spin the bottle so it hardly meant anything (you mean a proper full on kiss with tongues not just a peck right?) its better when it means anything as its more intimate, but my first was a game soo...
2007-02-14 09:26:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋