There is this guy I have been hanging out with. We go out to the bar, party, hang out, watch movies, etc.
ANYWAY, He will tell me he wants to hang out one night and when i call him to meet up- he doesnt answer. Then the next day he'll call me and ask me what Im doing, etc. I dont act mad (even though it kinda gets me mad) because I dont want him to think Im a crazy. Anyway he calls me today and says "Hey! Happy Valentine's Day!" All happy and excited to talk to me... We have been umm.. sexually active already and I do have a "crush" on him but, I dont know how he feels about me or if he feels anything and just wants to bang me.
Its an awkward situation, I know. Sorry for making you read all this but, comments, answers etc are appreciated!
Have a great day folks!
2007-02-14 09:10:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always say what's good for the Goose is good for the Gander.
If he is "suddenly" unavailable for a verbal "meet-up" date & time
and acts as though its no big deal (beleive me, he was somewhere else having fun just the same) then you should be unavailable for him from time to time.
If you want o value this relationship he has to learn how o value your time as well.
2007-02-14 09:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ronatnyu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's not a good idea to be sexually active with a person until you absolutely know how you feel about them, because there are the "users" out there and that's NO GOOD.
You have to follow your heart on this one. I think maybe you are worried too much. Just because he doesn't answer his phone, it doesn't mean he doesn't like you or care, because he does make it a point to call you and you said that he seemed happy to hear from you.
Just be careful and go into it slowly. You don't want to end up having regrets and a broken heart.
If you want to know how he feels, don't be aggressive, but ask him how he feels about a serious relationship.
2007-02-14 09:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's most likely is enjoying your company and likes that she can do all this 'boyfriendy' stuff with you without the attachment. She's just got out of a serious relationship, wants comfort. She may do later on down the line but at the moment your really going to have to respect her wishes, she doesn't want it. And if you do that I suggest you wait and let her make the first move so it isn't pushing her. However, it is wrong for her to lead you on with this flirting. If I was you talk to her, say don't flirt unless you mean it because its giving you the wrong impression.
2016-05-23 23:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're making it too easy for him. I DO NOT believe in playing "hard to get" but you said he calls you and y'all get together, you call him and he doesn't answer. Hmmm...what does that tell you? This whole situation is run on his terms only.
Give some thought to how you can change that. Don't be his (to steal a line from "Pretty Woman") 'beck and call girl'.
2007-02-14 09:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should confront him in person about it when yall hang out. just ask him what do u see coming from this.. are you interested.. ect.. or else yo u will stay in the same situation your in. i think he is interested but to scared to talk to u about it so i think if u take the initiative he will tell you what he wants. he just needs to know from you that u might be wanting a relationship. he probably doesnt want to freak u out just like u dont him.
2007-02-14 09:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by xxbrandy87xx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey ask his whats up? and see what he says. Maybe he just couldnt answer or whatever just talk it all out and get everything off your mind!
2007-02-14 09:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by lana07 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he is using you
2007-02-14 09:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a girl like this years ago....RUN AWAY!
2007-02-14 09:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by mike Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexualy active already? Low level trash, I have no respect for you.
2007-02-14 09:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋