I'm not just talking about physically, I mean mentally, emotionally, maybe even spirtually. People don't just cheat with their bodies, they cheat with their minds too. Is this really avoidable just because two people are in a relationship?
2007-02-14 09:09:41 · 11 answers · asked by oneladyice1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it can't be helped when it comes to guys. They like to look at other women, saying their not cheating, but the Bible says to look at another in lust is the same as cheating. If you are dating a man, he uses the excuse that you are not married, so it it not cheating. But if you are dating then that is commitment anyway. And it is cheating.
2007-02-22 02:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by maxine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think so. As for emotionally, I dont see how someone would allow themselves to get into a position of emotional list/love for someone else if they are in a committed relationship prior to them meeting. Now, if two people were having a rocky time and one thought the relationship was over and began to seek out other possible spouses, then yes, it would happen. But if that person is mature then they should let the person know.
Spiritually--makes no god damn sense.
As for mentally, yes, I completely agree. A quote from the move phonebooth "Its just like when you get your dream house, even though you know thats what you want. You always like to take a vacation every once in a while." So, with that said, me personally, i am in a long term relationship and I plan on marrying my current boyfriend. We are still young and in school thats why we havnt moved farther along.
...but when i watch t.v. if i see a sexy guy that makes me body go numb, yeh, i get to imagining all kind of stuff that would make someone need to go to church and repent. But still, its just that, a dream, i know who i wanna be with and i would never leave my man.. so mentally i think everyone cheats
2007-02-14 17:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bored Much 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is possible for two people to not cheat. Why? Because, I believe in compatibility on the personality level. I think that if a man and a woman knows their partner as best friends first, then they can know how and why they do the things they do. I think that when two people are extremely compatible with one another-then both of them will always hold the other person’s interest unless one or both of them stop being themselves and it reflects in the relationship. My guy looks at other women. He told me so. Sometimes I see him do it. I never say anything about it. But when he sees other men looking at me the same way-he realizes the connection with a knowing grin. But I also know he looks at me too. A lot. And, he smiles. I smile when he looks at me, especially when I put on sexy clothes.
I suggest you make sure you always look sexy when you’re with your man so that other men look at you and make your boyfriend kind of jealous. This will make him know you are the prize, and he won’t cheat or look at other women with how fine you are!!
2007-02-22 09:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is no way of really knowing who will cheat and who will not. we can know someone for years, and be in even a marriage, and think all is well and than suddenly that person can cheat on us. there is no protection from it, but it does help us if we really get to know the person we are with well. just depends on life, and what a person's character is, and what their belief system is. some people will never cheat no matter what, than there are some who will cheat at the first sign of any problems.
2007-02-14 17:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard question b/c only an idividual really knows if they are capable of any type of cheating and even then everyones different in what their idea of cheating entails. even the most honest person can cheat. it depends on the situation and the person in the situation. take care
2007-02-14 17:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some shape, form or fashion, yes! Cheating is inevitable! Not that it makes it right, but it is bound happen. There is always that someone else out there who offers something your partner doesnt, whether its honest communication, better sex, or whatever. It doesnt mean that you dont love your partner, it just means that you are human. We are not perfect.....
2007-02-21 22:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by Vanes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can have a relationship with no cheating of any kind. If you are truly in love there will be NO cheating.
2007-02-14 17:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many (especially) attractive chicks cannot keep interested in a man unless he's either cheating or they believe he's cheating
Its an evolutionary genetic survival thing - too hard to explain
2007-02-22 02:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they love each other it is possible to avoid.
2007-02-14 17:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is avoidable.
2007-02-22 10:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋