What to do?

Question

What do I do about this?
When there is someone that you just want to be friends with and they want more what do you do? I have known this guy for almost a year and nothing about him is attractive to me. I thought I just wasn't giving him enough of a chance but I'm actually bored around him. Its pretty obvious I'm not into him but he just doesn't get it. It just makes him try harder. If its just not there for me, why does he keep pushing? Friends are supposed to want you to be happy

Answer 1

Tell him that u don't want to ruin the friendship yall do have by starting a relationship. Also let him know that u are not feeling him and he needs to consider your feeling as well. He can't just force u to do what you don't want to do.

Answer 2

i have a friend like this except he isnt really my friend anymore. it was just so difficult to be around him. You might have to just come out and tell him to move on or something. dont try and be nice or he will think that he still has a chance and that would be bad. and some guys just dont give up.

Answer 3

I think he might be in love with you(or he thinks he is.) Otherwise, if you told him no, he might get it. If you have a heart to heart with him- I don't want to be with you, there is someone out there who will care for you the way I can't, etc. He might get it. Or, try to introduce him to someone else that he might be good with, so he can get over it. Help?

Answer 4

Gently tell him you like him, but are not interested in anything more. If that doesn't work, tell him he's not what you're looking for in a significant "other". If that doesn't work, tell him you don't mean to be mean or rude, but he is just NOT your type. And girl, if that doesn't work, tell him you're gay.

Good luck.