my best friends girlfriend is pregnant and she says its mine but it cant be coz i fire blanks im too ashamed to admit it coz it makes me sound like half a man but how do i tell my mate that i been sleeptn with his bird?????
2007-02-14 09:03:41 · 41 answers · asked by mike l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude u messed up bad.....but hey maybe you should tell him and maybe he wont be mad....maybe he'l be that type of guy that like to share his "bird".
2007-02-14 09:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by lovelycallgirl6 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are in a terrible situation that is greatly of your own making. By trying to keep it to yourself, you will only be prolonging the inevitable. Sooner or later, the truth will come to light, and the longer you wait, the worse it will be. You and your mate's girlfriend did a bad thing, and now it's time to pay the piper. The only way through your current predicament is to face it. You're going to have to bite the bullet. Tell this girl of your medical issue, and confess to your friend what you did. Remember, now there is another life involved. You should have all this sorted before the baby is born.
Good luck
Regards A.
2007-02-14 09:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sure that it's can't be yours? Just asking because I have heard of cases where the guy 'fires blanks' but by some remote chance has managed to have a kid. Don't be ashamed of it, it doesn't make you any less of a man, it's not like you get a choice in the matter.
Just come clean with your mate, he might appreciate your honesty (probably after punching you, but you'll just have to deal with that)
2007-02-14 09:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by aleta_uk_0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you fire blanks or not, your obviously do not not understand the meaning of BEST FRIEND!!!Best Friends do not sleep with their mates girlfriends.. You are right you are only half a man and half a PIG Shame on you.
2007-02-14 09:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the doctor says you're shooting blanks, what he really means is you are playing Russian Roulette. I think you fired from the chamber with the bullet. But it serves you right. Shooting blanks is not reason to be a manwhore and sleep with your homie's boo.
Tell him what happened and take your whupping like a man. Just be thankful IF he lets you live.
Other than that, congratulations on becoming a father.........you dirty manwhore!
2007-02-14 09:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to confront her with the truth but you better be positive first before you do that. Shooting blanks does not make you less of a man. And, if he's truly a friend of yours, you need to tell him what's been going on but don't expect the friendship to continue.
2007-02-14 09:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by happyblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should speak to the girl and ask for a paternity test if she claims your the father. Wait for the results and then go from there. If you choose to tell your friend be prepared for the consequences - he may not want to have you as a friend anymore once he finds out you've been sleeping with his girlfriend behind his back.
2007-02-14 09:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you shoot blanks? There is always a possibility of the baby being yours. As far as telling your friend, just get it over with. Why be afraid? Doesn't sound like you were really friends to begin with.
2007-02-14 09:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well She can have a court ordered DNA test done when the baby get's here...so it really doesn't matter. She just has to wait until then when you will HAVE to submit to a DNA test or go to jail. Then if the tests match you were obviously wrong about "shooting blanks". I've known guys to be wrong before
2007-02-14 09:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are going to be a father. You should not care about other people's opinion now as the future of your unborn child should be one of the most important things. Just do not send that girl for abortion. Support her. Once the child is born you will think: thanks God I did not do anything stupid. Such a lovely child!
P.S. But I understand your situation. Good luck! Actually, if you really respected your best friend you would not have slept with his girlfriend. So, he is not really that best friend of yours.
2007-02-14 09:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you know you "fire blanks"..... even if you had a vasectomy there are cases where it grows back together and you could get someone pregnant. You don't have to tell your friend anything, SHE needs to decide whether to tell him she's cheated on him, and then when it's possible you'll have to get a paternity test
2007-02-14 09:08:59 · answer #11 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋