my 15 year old sis got drunk with her 23 year old b/f 2 times should i tell my parents???
p.s. my parents do not even know about her 23 year old boyfriend!!
2007-02-14 08:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all -- you need to inform your parents about her 23 year old boyfriend .. because (and yes, I am a Long Term Single Parent who is finally an empty-nesting single retiree) ... I as a PARENT want to know when a situation like this arises -- and the word "PREDATOR" comes to mind. (and any adult is going to wonder about what in the world a 23 year old would have in common with a 15 year old ....)
By all means, yes, too, report her Drinking. YOUR parents need to PROTECT her LIFE .. and this situation can cost her her LIFE.
2007-02-14 09:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you should talk to her, ask her whats going on. maybe somethings wrong. then, if she doesnt tell you DEFINATELYtell your parents.
i have a sis that age, and im very protective of her. i've got to tell you, going to some kind of trusted adult would be best. if thats your parents, then tell them. if its someone else, tell them instead. i had a teacher who was really cool, and i talked to her when i'd get really upset.
and your sis is also breaking the law when she drinks and havng a 23 year old bf. and while shes drunk, something really bad could happen. he could do something to her and i think its best to try and prevent that from happening
talk to her and tell someone
hope my advice helped
~Maureen
2007-02-14 09:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your sister's own safety, I would first talk to her and let her know that the road she's on is dangerous, and she WILL get hurt if she keeps it up.
If she is not willing to make a change (including this WAY older boyfriend that should know better) then I would talk to your parents and let them know that you are concerned, and this is what you know.
Let your parents be the heavy. Get them to search her room, and not mention that you said anything. When they find something that proves your theory, they will act, as parents should, and hopefully put a boot up her *** for being such an ignorant child!
2007-02-14 11:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by xylina_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would inform your parents that they should be checking in a bit more on what your sister has been up to. if they ask what you mean i would say that they just need to tighten her leash, and really investigate what she is doing. that way you are not telling on her, you're just warning your parents that she's becoming wild, and on a path of destruction. also just tell them that sisters talk, and that you don't want to ruin that bond between the 2 of you but, that they need to know that something not right.
2007-02-14 09:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! you need to tell your parents that she have a b/f that is 23 years old. that is very illegal for an adult to be dating a minor. and she can get hurt or pregant. she is too young to have a baby and a B/F that old..
2007-02-14 09:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Deaf Redneck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely tell my parents about the boyfriend and the drinking. her boyfriend is obviously a bad influence on your sister, and drinking can become a serious issue, maybe not now, but sooner or later..she may be mad at you for awhile, but she'll get over it.. they always do.
2007-02-14 10:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by mrs.contreras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! You could save your sister from something very dangerous happening to her. It is important that YOU are the one to do it. If you care about her do what is best! TELL
2007-02-14 09:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by Christa B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They need to know about the boyfriend and the drinking. It is for her own good and her safety.
2007-02-14 09:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by DL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The BF is not being good for her... I bet soon she is going to have unprotected sex... so better talk to her and your parents.
2007-02-14 09:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snitches get stitches watch out
2007-02-14 09:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋