We hang out a lot, almost every day and stuff after school, during school, and on weekends. She knows i like her, and she likes me, we have hooked up. What should I do...is there any way to convince her to leave this man. They see each other only once a week and it seems like he treats her like crap. Its valentines day and he is ignoring her...what should i do
2007-02-14 08:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by Robert S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as in hook up i mean we kissed, but then she stopped it because of him.
2007-02-14 09:03:11 · update #1
Dude I know it sucks but you have to leave her alone. Trust me I have been in your position before, twice actually. She is trying to have her cake and eat it too. You are giving her everything that her boyfriend isn't and she doesn't even have to break up with him. You need to tell her that hanging out with her is too hard, because you will always want more than she is willing to give. Then just leave her alone for a while. She will realize all of the good things that you gave her that her boyfriend doesn't. Then she will see how much better you are than her boyfriend.
She may break up with him and come running after you and she may not, but at least you can start to move on. I know you like the girl but it is not fair to you to wait around for her. Force her to make a decision or she will keep you in limbo as long as she can.
Trust me I wasted 6 months of my life that i can never get back, with this same problem.
2007-02-14 09:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by boredatwork 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like at the moment she doesnt think its worth it to leave him and be with you. If you like her that much, give her a little time to come around. If she doesnt do that soon, it means that she's having doubts about you and thats never a good sign for any relationship. In that case, you're screwed dude.
2007-02-14 17:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by anthony f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince her to dump him and make you her boyfriend. Then after awhile she can tell some other guy that you treat her badly and she can cheat on you, just like she cheated on her old boyfriend.
2007-02-14 17:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know what you have to offer her, you seem to be around more and dont treat her bad, ask her what can i do to make you leave him? is there something that he has that i dont? open her eyes, she obviously needs it. let her know how you feel about her, and if she is dating you and this other guy, tell her to make up her mind or you will have to move on. guys dont like cheaters, women that cheat can carry more STDs or be more prone to them, and i dont think that you want one of those
2007-02-14 17:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up and tell this guy to get! If your the one she wants and you know it don't just stand there and watch! And if you can't step up, tell her she doesn't deserve to be treated like that and she needs to leave him ASAP.
2007-02-14 17:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kasandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry to hear that. with the exception of hooking up, i know what you're going through. all i can say is talk serious to her about how you feel. hope this isnt completely useless...
2007-02-14 17:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Rebel Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a single girl. She'll do the same to you brother!
2007-02-14 16:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her u love her seems like youw'd be a better bf then the man she has!!!!!!!!
2007-02-14 17:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by becca p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back away if she hooked up with you while she's with him can you imagine what she'll do with any body while she's with you.
2007-02-14 16:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by smartbluewater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use a gun
2007-02-14 16:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by squirrels_are_cool 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋