im not some sex fiend...but its just something that i am very interested in...probably cause wherever you look its all over the internet and such...i just want to try it...but she is really against...for probably every reason under the sky...gross, dirty, pain...
2007-02-14 08:50:12 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get her real drunk and kinda lube it up..and slip it in
2007-02-14 08:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by b4i_fku-r-u-18 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
now I know that you may think that it is intriging, but it's not worth the pain that you can cause her. I tried it once, and my fiance said it didn't even feel all that different. It's a little tighter, but not enough to make a difference. It can cause internal problems as well. If your sexual desires still make you want to put her through that pain then it just takes convincing. Offer her something in return. Do something for her that you would never consider doing. It takes giving on your part too.
2007-02-14 08:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy to Boys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I first did it because my boyfriend had asked if he could try. And I'm glad that he did!! The first time it isn't very good and some women will never enjoy it but there are some of use who like it. Anal sex is an acquired taste, just aks her, if she says no then ask her if you can touch her anus or insert a small vibrator during sex- if she enjoys it then she might warm to the idea of anal. And if she doesn't like you doing that then you might need to just leave it until she is willing, wanting and ready to.
2007-02-16 17:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You DO know this is the exact reason that religion and people are against pornography right lol. Just for the basic reason it makes girls seem bad and lose and makes them seem open to things they dont wanna do. Theres not really supposed to be anal sex but there is a g-spot there, i think all these things are really pornofied things for the most part, dont push the sh$% man, be happy with just "frontdoor sex" and maybe oral sex. You can put the girl in doggey and still penetrate through the vagina...if you REALLY watch porno (like me) you should know this lol ;), good times XD.
2007-02-14 08:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are an idiot. If you think real love is like some porn site, remember that on the intenet they're ACTING and most are drugged out. Go to her gynecologist with her one day and talk to him/her. then you'll see why this is not for intelligent, caring sexual partners. It is also dangerous and even if it wasn't - if a woman says NO - she means NO and she doesn't need any reason. Love means doing what feels great for BOTH partners not just for some voyeur-porn-surfing-selfish-ignorant pig.
2007-02-14 09:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then it is that way for her. Some people just dont want to try it. Explain to her that you are just trying to experiment. Also that it hits different nerves than her virgina and connects more with sensitive pleasure nerves. True it hurts, just like the girls first time with virginal sex. But soon her body will adapt to it and perhaps enjoy it.
2007-02-14 09:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by rezruf 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is the sort of sick question that doesn't belong where children might read it and get the wrong impression about what is acceptable behavior. Perversion should not be treated as anything other than perversion and doing anything else just encourages degeneracy.
2007-02-15 16:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey, backdoor love is an acquired liking, it doesn't happen with just a couple of forced times. you should encourage her to let you try with your fingers while you're giving her oral. Then maybe you can use a very small vibrator down there. Eventually, after using those things, she may allow you in there.
2007-02-14 09:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by sophia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK if you want to be single do what the guys above say to do...LMAO
You need to talk to her about it on a serious level. She may not give in on this one and that's ok.. She has a right to say no but if you explain how interested you are in it and if at any point she says to stop you will she may let you give it a try...
2007-02-14 08:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, look at it from her perspective... would like like to have something shoved up your @$$? Just because it may feel good to you does not mean that the opposite is true. Have a little compassion for her and respect her wishes.
2007-02-14 08:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to try it and if she does not enjoy it, then you won't do it again. Tell her to shower and you will use a condom. Be sure she is very aroused before.... Let her know that many women enjoy this if done at the right time. She may like it.
2007-02-14 09:01:08 · answer #11 · answered by sambgood05 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋