He says that he may love her and he really cares about her but he is always telling me that he will be there for me and that he thinks i am really cute. Whenever we are together he flirts with me and my friends think he will break up with his girlfriend for me. Dont get me wrong he totally isn't a jerk who is just messing with my mind because he is an insanely honest and sweet guy. Is there any way I can get his attention a little more without being called a homewrecker and having his girlfriend break up with him. I don't want him to get hurt.
2007-02-14 08:47:45 · 15 answers · asked by K. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG my boyfriend was the same way with me! he had a girlfriend but i was madly in love with him. He said he loved his gf (at the time) but they were having problems. I was there to help him, I gave him as much advice as I could. I wanted him to be happy, even if it wasn't with me. Even though I helped him, they still broke up. (She cheated on him) I waited about a month after their break up and I asked him out. We've been together ever since....actually we're getting married. A word of advice....wait around for him....don't purposely try to break them up. It's not gonna get you anywhere. Be his friend and help him when he needs it. Put his needs and wants first...believe me...he'll notice you alot more.
Good luck
2007-02-14 08:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by **Angel_Eyes** 2 · 9⤊ 3⤋
Stay away if you know that he has a girlfriend.. You are the one that looks bad in this scenario... You ever heard of the saying " What goes around , comes around...? " If he was a sweet guy he wouldn't disrespect his girlfriend like that.. and what makes you so special? We women are so dumb at times... Girl, if he gets with you he will do the same thing to you.. Do you want that? Put yourself in those shoes? No you don't... here's another line Once a cheat always a cheat.. pick someone who is available
2007-02-14 08:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by flyme@cal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look if he says he might love the girl, why are you still trying to get his attention. Has he ever told you that he might love you? If he's saying that he will always be there for you, maybe its in a friendly way or something. I tell all my guy friends that I'll always be there for them if they need help or whatever and that they are cute! But it means different things. If he loves her just leave him alone and let them be!
2007-02-14 08:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by lana07 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
u no i have the same thing going on with me. this guy also has a gf nd me nd him r just friends but he keeps saying how hot i am etc. wait until he is single, or flirt around a little bit, hey ur single then ur allowed to, make him want u, poke him around cuz ur single nd u can do that, but when he tries restrain urself a little 2 make sure he wants more. hope everything works out
2007-02-14 08:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him alone. If his is in a relationship and trying to test his ground with you. What do you think he will do when he gets bored with you. HE IS A JERK. They all say just what you want them to say. BUTT OUT..HOMEWRECKER
2007-02-14 09:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by tonyascogins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do unto others what you want done unto you, if he left her for you, who is to say he wont leave you for another girl, hes already done it, so what would stop him from doing it again, certainly NOT a homewrecker..let him go, there are plenty of other ****s out there and i can garuntee he just wants to use you for some play time on the side.
2007-02-14 08:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend, so stay away. How would you like it if some girl was flirting with your man? Pissed right. Also, if he leaves his girlfriend for you, don't you think he'd leave you for another girl? Leave it alone and find your own man.
2007-02-14 08:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jdmnd 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
If you think anything of this guy maybe you should just leave his happiness in his own hands and just accept what he is offering you.
2007-02-14 08:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should back off and give him space.. What your doing is being a home wrecker.. Listen hunny we have all liked guys that have girl friends or wife's but that doesn't mean you move in.. Remember What goes around comes around!!!!!!!!
2007-02-14 08:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't get involved until he is single. Take a stand ppl respect others more for it!
2007-02-14 08:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋