i had to tell the girl that i broke up with last year i told her that i couldnt be wit her cuz all i do is cause stress and all i ever did was hurt her and i did want to do that anymore she deserves to be someone who will always make her happy no matter what but i will always love her always
2007-02-14 08:40:23 · 7 answers · asked by RANDY J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you did cause her stress and hurt her yes you did the right thing .If you did hurt her physically are yo sorry ? Do you have anger issues and if so why don't you get help if you still love her and want to be with her? I don't know all the story and I will not judge you for what you have done but if you really think she is better off without you move on and find someone you won't do these things to and someone you won't treat bad cause there is someone somewhere who is meant for you and you only and you will know if she's the right girl because you won't want to treat her the way you did the other girl.I'm a woman and I know there are plenty wacko women out there and sometimes you can't help yourself it's like some girls like men like you but if you don't like yourself how can you like someone else.Just a thought dude!
2007-02-14 08:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by connor'snana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you did the right thing. Maybe you didn't love her as much as you say you did. Maybe you both weren't right for each other. But you did the mature thing. Rather than stay together, stress and hurt her feelings, you freed her to find someone else.
It can be painful to tell someone you don't love them enough. I had to do it once and it was brutal. But it was better than going on with a relationship that was doomed to end.
Hopefully you learned from this experience and have a better understanding of what you are looking for in a relationship.
Good luck.
A~
2007-02-14 09:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing, other guys i dated in my past wouldn't even admit to what they did wrong. maybe it it was meant to be in the future you and her may get back together. but it was best that you did that because it would have leaded to more problems.
2007-02-14 08:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by keyona j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the right thing would have been to get your head out of your butt and treat her the way she should have been treated and since you didn't . . .what you did comes in at a close second.
2007-02-14 08:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did
2007-02-14 08:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that's so sweet. Yes I feel you did the right thing, you did something for you and for her.
2007-02-14 08:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Caitie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to late now....
2007-02-14 08:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by sircrazydude90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋