ive got 2 boys who i adore with all my heart but i can only ever have 1 more child. i would die for a lil girl so much. i cryed the other day when i say a girl and her mom at my moms school. ive only got 1 more chance. if i had a boy id adore him to but id be devastated that id never been given the chance to have a daughter. what should i do?
2007-02-14 08:36:55 · 23 answers · asked by lipz20 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
ooo, get the bitchy answers out there! dnt they understand that not being able to have a girl can sometimes be as bad as not being able to hav a child at all. of course u love ur sons i'd never quibble it (is that a word? i duno but still using it). try 4 another baby when u kno ur ready 4 it, then if things dnt work out u can always adopt! its not like any1 will look dwn on u cuzza it, ur giving sum1 elses unwanted child the chance of a happy home, life and family
good luck, n i hope u get ur wish
p.s, personally think god is a git...thats y he's doing it
2007-02-14 12:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't quite understand, why can you "only ever have 1 more child"????? Is it because of finances or what? Why the one more chance????
You have been given the chance to have a girl, you have after all been pregnant twice, that means you had at least two chances of having a girl.
All you can do is have more children and hope for a girl, love the ones you have, or adopt a girl.
Above all be thankful for what you have, having two boys is more than some people ever get to have.
2007-02-14 09:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Bugs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of people in your same situation. NEVER complain about not having what you want, and just be happy with what you have been given by God. I personally dont understand the need to have one over the other when it comes to gender, but one thing i do know is that people want alot of things in this world, but most of the time, they get what they need. You can ask God for a girl, but if you get another boy, just thank God anyway and move on. Spend time in his word, and seeking him, and then he may give you that girl you always wanted. Most of the time, we dont get what we want or desire because our focus is on our wants and even, needs, than it is on God....
2007-02-14 08:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by SonicCube123 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My sis in law lost TWO babies in in a matter of three months. Be glad you have your boys! If you get pregnant and have another boy then deal with it. God doesn't do this to you. That's pathetic to even say that! I'm sorry but this really angers me. There are people who want babies so badly and just want it to be healthy and here you are crying because "GOD" put you in this situation. Poor you, God gave you healthy boys.
2007-02-14 09:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would put off having another child until you have got over your need for a girl. Then it wouldn't matter to you as your need for another child would outweigh your need for a daughter. BTW I have 4 daughters and they can be a nightmare, always thought i wanted a boy but watching my nephews am glad i didn't.
2007-02-14 08:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by sharon r 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What is more important, being thankful for what you've got or feeling depressed about what you haven't got?
You need to think about what it is that is making you feel that you need a daughter. What is this about, where do these feelings come from. When you've addressed these issues then maybe you can have peace and move on in your life.
2007-02-14 08:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biology gave you two healthy sons. Be happy with them. If there is a god it does not have a bearing. Your husband cotrols the outcome with his genetics. Try again, or adopt a girl. These are your only options. Think of all the women who cannot have children.
2007-02-14 08:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by doggiebike 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with crystal lynn. I may never be able to have children and i would do anything just to have my own child whether it is a boy or a girl so why don't you just love your children no matter what and be grateful that you can actually have.
2007-02-14 08:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by shygirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Adopt. If things don't work out adoption is always an option. You have to be strong for your kids no matter what the gender. As long as you love them all equally you should be happy.
2007-02-14 08:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by katchoo_792 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have the child and love them with all your heart.
The world is imperfect not because God does things to us, it is imperfect because Adam chose to eat the forbidden fruit. Satan now controls the world. Good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. Just learn to be happy and satisfied with what comes your way - give your life over to God
I had 2 boys and a girl and when my partner committed suicide the county took them away, I have not seen them in 3 years. Be happy you have what you have.
2007-02-14 08:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋