Small. I like the opportunity to minister one-on-one to my people - and that means an active participation with and through the Holy Sacraments. Smaller allows for this.
2007-02-14 08:31:43
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Actually, I prefer a church that's not very small or very large -- just somewhere in the middle.
I speak from experience when I say that you can get lost in the large church and never really feel at home. And you can get far more attention (read: gossip) in a very small church than you will ever want or need.
A medium sized church lets you get to know people and find a ministry that helps others. At the same time, you're not living in each other's pockets.
2007-02-14 08:47:31
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answered by Wolfeblayde 7
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I prefer a small church. I go to the same church my parents, grandmother and aunts go to. Everyone there knows everyone else and it's like a big extended family group.
When I went off to college, I went to a very large church, and I never managed to sit by the same people twice. It was hard to get to know anybody. I mean, people would come up and introduce themselves, but it didn't seem like they cared about me, they were just making the rounds. I got to know fewer people there, out of over a thousand, than I did at my home church (around 50 members).
One of the other answers said that small churches are usually small for a reason, but the one I go to is in a small town, so a small church makes sense:)
2007-02-14 08:38:05
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answered by DLM 5
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I prefer a small church. Its good to know everyone that attends the church. Big churches are good, but tent to loose contact with everyone especially the pastor of the church.
On the other hand, size does not matter. It is the same God that reign in both. For me, personally, I have experience both size church and prefer the small one.
Big size churches are good if you are a shy person and want to attend church, because you can hide and there are more people for others to greet.
Small size churches are good for people person type. You get to greet everyone because everyone notices everyone else.
2007-02-14 08:36:42
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answered by Farani P 2
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I prefer a small church with active members, because it's easier to develope a close loving Christian realationship with other members than at a big church. The only problem with this is that many small churches are small for a reason.
2007-02-14 08:30:20
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answered by nosrettaptnilc 2
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There are benefits for both. I go to a mega-church, and like it because they have small group settings. For example, I am in a young married couples class. At a small church, they couldn't have a class like that.
But a small church provides a tighter community within the church. Go there if you aren't planning on attending a "Sunday school" type class.
Good luck! :)
2007-02-14 08:32:14
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answered by LP 2
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I feel that once a church grows out of porportion to where the preacher/pastor can not have a 1 on 1 relationship with every member, then it is too large. What the number really is varies
2007-02-14 08:35:59
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answered by Ecclesiastes 3
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properly I actually were in tremendous and small church homes and that i trust the smaller ones are more beneficial advantageous, they seem to be a lot less commercial and has a experience of kinfolk. Dispute your reports lots of the small church homes I actually were to were very accepting of anybody (interracial couples, gays, woman clergy etc.) yet which will be using region, in NYC the smaller church homes are those that look more beneficial accommodating to diverse people. Peace and advantages = )
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answered by Anonymous
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around 600 people or so is good for me - but the bigger the church, the more important it is to have home groups - so no one gets lost in the mass amount of people and for developing relationships....
2007-02-14 08:33:12
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answered by Amy 3
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Negachurch
2007-02-14 08:31:43
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answered by Anonymous
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