ok, so he lives about an hour away from me and I haven't seen him in 2 years and he's coming down to where I live just to see me. I met him when I was 9 cause he's my best friend's brother. Well, he's really sweet and I used to have a crush on him when I was 12. I'm just really nervous cause I want to look my best when I see him, and hopefully we'll hook up when he's down. I'm not sure if he still likes me but he's says he can't wait to come down. I need help for what I should do when he comes
2007-02-14 08:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by Caitie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bring him some flowers and bake him a cake. that's always nice.
2007-02-14 08:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tottally know what your talking about because ive been in this situation. When he comes you want to look your best, but do NOT over do it. You dont want to look desperate or anything. Dress simple, and try to remember if hes ever given you a compliment on somthing you wore. Also anything jewelry/clothes hes given you. this is the time ti wear it. It will give you somthing special for him to remember. Also did you guys ever have any like places that were special? like a beach? try to get alone with him and this place and just tell him how you feel. It could lead to a hook up or somthing more. But the key to this is not to be desperate, if you are getting signals hes not interested...just stick to being friends. I know you can do this! Good luck girl!
2007-02-14 16:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Terra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it casual and have fun. People, even Prince Charming, can change a lot in two years so don't set your expectations too high and set yourself up for disappointment. Expect to have a nice reunion with a good friend. Anything beyond that is a bonus. Don't try too hard to impress - be comfortable and yourself. Now's not the time to experiment with hair, makeup, clothes. Think back to the last time you felt you looked really good and go for that look - same outfit, etc.. Good luck!
2007-02-14 16:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by delaneyk93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to calm down,he's just a boy.
If you play it cool, you'll look better because you'll be more confident of yourself.
And you have to be careful if you "hook up".
He could just use you for sex.
Do not let yourself get attached too soon untill you know he is for real. He lives only an hour away and hasn't contacted you ? Sounds like he's just interested in that part of it.
If you are that interested in him, tell him and don't play games .
2007-02-14 16:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lauran B. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If you try too hard you'll just make the situation arkward. Find out what he is into and do a little bit of research for conversation starters like sports, books and so on. That should help you get off the ground.
2007-02-14 16:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Joe1664 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 14 and you want to hook up with him?
Give yourself a few more years
2007-02-14 16:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to him normal like 'hi' or 'whats up'. If you still have a crush on him, mabye you should tell him how u feel or ask him how he feels about you
2007-02-14 16:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by blah blah blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont freak out and look desparate!!! when he does come down just put on something cute but not too much and just talk to him..
2007-02-14 16:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and make the time you have with him the best!
2007-02-14 16:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kalee♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i am a boy maybe we can meet hotey email me at bkip2000@yahoo.com
2007-02-14 16:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by brian k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋