how do you know if your boyfriend tells you and that he means it. Be and by boyfriend have been toghther making 4 months today on Valentines day. We have been toghter sice November 14but we also grew up toghther, and sometimes when he say that he loves me i just woonder does he mean it or doesnt he mean it. Juts basically how can i tell if it real or not. Please give me your answers.Plus are we to young to say that we love each other im14 and he's 15 are we to young?
2007-02-14 08:07:48 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't put age limits on love. Some people are lucky enough to experience young love. You'll know if it's real by his actions. Love is a verb. If he treats you with kindness and doesn't hurt you then you should give him a chance. Let him prove his love to you. If he begins to mistreat you then you will know whether it's real or not.
2007-02-14 08:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitions of what real love is change over time,so what is love for a teenager maybe is just infatuation for a grown-up. In any case, to check if he really means being in love with u, see whether he looks right at u when he tells you he loves u, or he just looks somewhere else while he says it and THEN looks at you. If it's the latter, you might have reasons to doubt him. And the other thing is, guys are VERY prone to tell ANY girl that they love her when making out, but not in other situations. If that's the case here, beware!
2007-02-14 16:24:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mysticalman68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. listen to him when he tells you something. Classic mistake a lot of women make is to try to 'interpret'.
2. You are a little young. That doesn't mean you can't have feeling for each other.
2007-02-14 16:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenagers throw the word "love" around and it loses its meaning... he probably just says it b/c you're his girlfriend. He probably really really likes you, but I'm not sure he loves you since you're both so young and haven't been together for that long. Real love takes a little more time than that..
2007-02-14 16:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU CANT TELL YOU JUST HAVE TO FEEL IT AND TRUST THAT HE TRUELY DOES LOVE YOU...... CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR 4TH MONTH.... IM ON MY 9TH..... AND IT DOESNT MATTER THE AGE. AGE DOESNT MATTER WITH LOVE IM 14 AND ME AND MY BF STARTED TELLING EACH OTHER WE LOVE EACH OTHER BY I THINK IT WAS THE 3RD MONTH SO.........YOU JUST HAVE TO TRUST THAT IN YOUR HEART YOU REALLY LOVE HIM AND THAT HE IS TRUE AND SINCERE BECAUSE YOU WOULDNT HAVE WENT OUT WITH HIM IF HE WASNT RIGHT???
2007-02-14 16:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch his actions. And how he act around you.
2007-02-14 16:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats pretty young you can tell if he really cares about you by his actions not his words!
2007-02-14 16:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about it
2007-02-14 16:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋