He says he wants to be with me, but he still loves his ex girlfriend. He was telling me to read his emails from her and one of them said for her to bring a condom over to his house. My ex is also wanting to hook back up with me. What do I do?? Stay with my boyfriend or go back to my ex??
2007-02-14 07:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by Ambyre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say to separate from all of them right now until they can figure out what they are doing. First of all your new boyfriend, what is he playing at? Why would he do that to you? And his ex is sending him emails like that? I worry that you are going to get really hurt. Your boyfriend says he care, but if he did, he wouldn't be talking to his ex, much less thinking about sleeping with her. He does not respect you, you deserve respect.
As for your ex, why does he want you back? Why did you break up?
As I said, find your friends and hang out with them for a while. You are too young to be dealing with all this stress.
2007-02-14 08:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by chickemama 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget both of them and move on to someone who deserves u. Ur ex is an ex for a reason, there was something not working out between u two for u to have split up with him. And this other guy is still not over his ex and he'll bring that into the relationship. If he's still got her emails it's a sure sign he's not over her. ANd he wants u to read them? Why? That's odd.
2007-02-14 16:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he wants you to read email where he is asking his ex for sex, then that should tell you that it is over. About your ex, it all depends why you broke up. If he cheated or hurt you in anyway than don't, but if you wanted some time apart or something, then go for it!
2007-02-14 16:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Yezmin Fernandez 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The boyfriend you have now sounds like a jerk... he's probably still hooking up with his ex. Don't go with either.
2007-02-14 16:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Janine 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Twisted. ;)
What feelings have you got for both - the guy and the ex? You don't say.
If this ex is a worhty fellow, I incline in his favour, because you already know him, and if he wants you back maybe, he realised somwthing about you two.
The other guy doesn't sound very manly, sorry...
2007-02-14 16:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by S from Dublin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you're seriously considering getting with that creep? obviously he just wants some bangarangs
2007-02-14 16:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd go with neither, they both seem like creeps. You can do better.
2007-02-14 16:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jez...what is it with all these kinds of questions..you are asking strangers to answer questions to your life...not theirs...
just take a deep breathe...think to yourself...what really makes me happy...and then do it...
2007-02-14 16:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by boosted 1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take a break and wait....Time is your ally here.
2007-02-14 16:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by pauljpray 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋