it seems like everyone i know has a girlfriend but me. i'm not gay nor a virgin and i dont think im ugly or anything. its just i have trouble displaying intrest or any emotion what so ever, not just to women but to everything. people think im cold, be i dont think i am, i just cant show that i care about anything. everytime i want to say something showing I care (not just girls, everything) i get real tight in my chest , it almost feels like im being strangled. it physically hurts, i have to walk away or think about something else to make it go away. any advice?
2007-02-14 07:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by Phil Magroin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you have real emotions! I find that refreshing in a guy!
And yes...it's ok not to have a girlfriend. When the time is right you'll know it.
Just have lots of friends........have lots of fun..........live it up.
Don't be so hard on yourself!
2007-02-14 08:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by iwonder 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok im not going to tell you to get a hooker or do drugs, but what I will tell you is that your insecure. I am in no way shape or form saying that to be mean but it's the truth. Start everyday, by looking in the mirror and telling yourself, that you look good and can talk to anyone and just keep on till you have the confidence. Everyday look in that mirror and say something good about you. Build yourself back up. Once you start to believe everything your saying to yourself, you will feel so much better. Let go of fears like rejection and someone disliking you and other things along them lines. You can do this! you can have confidence. When that tight feeling starts rearing its ugly head breath through it and you will be fine, a lot of girls think its cute when a guy is trying to find the right thing to say, it means they're really digging ya , and cant find the words. And no you dont NEED a girlfriend, in fact sometimes being single is fun cause you can mingle.
2007-02-14 16:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by Amber Vance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No law in the world says you have to have a girlfriend nor a boyfriend for that matter. Just because you don't have a partner does not mean you are strange. Emotions like you describe I think go back to your childhood, if you can ever let yourself go one time I believe that you will find everything else will follow.
2007-02-14 16:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by stargazer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if have a condition called anxiety. Do you feel dizzy and short of breath as well as the chest tightness? You may want to see your Dr to get a prescription of Adavan.
2007-02-14 16:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the happiest days of my life were between girlfriends. I was able to come and go as I please. hang out with friends anytime. And not answer to anyone.
I've grown since then, but being able to get that stuff out of my system was the best.
2007-02-14 16:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you think you are cute email me at shanna_jack_will@yahoo.com and I give you an answer my friend needs a good boyfriend get back to me a that one?
2007-02-14 16:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should prob just go jump your azz off a bridge
2007-02-14 16:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by b4i_fku-r-u-18 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
have a few drinks, or smoke a few bowls. That should loosen you up.
2007-02-14 15:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by DannyC 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
get a hooker
2007-02-14 15:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋