me and my bf both 18 years old and we have been togther for 1 year and he rang me up and told me hes buying me a meal which costs £3.40 and thats it.hes not even going to get me a card or anythink.i got him a card and some marshmellos.we both didnt know what to get eachother but he could atleast get me a card.dont u think that unfair
2007-02-14 07:56:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THINK YOURSELF LUCKY I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 13 YEARS AND STILL WAITING FOR A CHEAP MEAL LOL
BUT WE ARE HAPPY AND THAT IS WORTH MORE THAN ANY MONEY CAN BUY
2007-02-14 08:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think that point of Valentine's Day should be that you spend time together rather than spending money? It's the shops that have put forward the whole 'buy your gf/wife a card or you don't really love them' crap.
And before anyone says anything about I'm only saying it because I didn't get any cards myself, I have a bf and we agreed weeks ago not to waste money on cards.
2007-02-14 08:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by aleta_uk_0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad u have that.
U sound like a spoilt brat, some of us got nothing , some of us wont get anything, some of us don't have boy/girl friends, some people live with violent partners and poss got a kicking,
Its not how much u spend, its the company and how is done.....so stop acting the diva and just say thank u and tell him u love him.
2007-02-14 08:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by littlemermaid_72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No ,you dont give to receive you being unfair too atleast he making an effort get over it ,say this 15 year down the line it will soon change its not got to be all one sided
2007-02-14 08:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think about the price or that he's not getting you anything....I know you feel unappreciated, but some man are just not big on valentine's day....think of the other times that he'd been really sweet, when he doesn't need a red calendar day to make it special....but if you think you're not really happy with how he generally treats you (or taken you forgranted) then talk it over with him...I always find communication to work.
2007-02-14 08:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by psalm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next year [if you are together] why not arrange for a friend to send you a card [totally anonymous] and when it arrives be all over b/f pretending you think it's from him. That will worry him no end!!
2007-02-14 08:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Davy B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah e couldv made an effort to get a card so atleast ul have a card to look back on. men just dont get it do they. ive had simular prob today. especially as he should be makeing it up to me for being a pig all wk.
2007-02-14 08:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by haze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that cheap then dump his *** and make him jealous.It's not right for him to tell you something like that and get away without you being able to do something.Plus you're lucky he even spent that much on you,you little weirdo!!
2007-02-14 08:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Razvan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's about money at this stage for you, then you don't deserve him. He's at least making a gesture, even if he's not getting you a card!
I feel for him if he's not measuring up to your expectations.
2007-02-14 08:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by lynn a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing the victim. You should be grateful for your cheap hamburger.
J/k, tell him you feel unappreciated. If he sucks that bad just break up.
2007-02-14 08:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Monkey Boy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋