Sex getting boring?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been dating and having sex for almost 2 years and we used to do it in public places, secretly and it was exciting. (Our first time was in a soccer field) Now, it's always in the bedroom. I just wanna know.. could he possibly think it's getting boring? AND, could you please let me know some thoughts on how to make it more interesting. Tips on teasing, tips on where to have sex... etc. Don't get me wrong though.. I LOVE SEX WITH MY BOYFRIEND!!! He's the greatest. I just want to make sure I'm satisfying him.

Answer 1

I know exactly how you feel. I am having the same exact problem with my boyfriend of two years now. So if you have time, go check out my yahoo questions ive asked, and you can see what other people have said in response to my question about a guy losing interest in the same old sex. Some of the answers were really informative, and mostly answered by guys, which is what i had hoped for, because they give the best guy perspective. Ive learned that eventually the "honeymoon" stage of any relationship wears off if you let it. And its up to you after that to find a deeper connection and meaningfulness to the relationship, or move on to the next partner for new exciting sex. Because eventually, the same ol same ol....is going to get boring unless you do something different constantly. But still, he will in time get tired of that too. The good news is, every relationship, and ever couple have these same problems, and its nothing new to the dating/relationship scene like i thought too. So relax, he probably loves you very much, and even if the sex isnt like it once was, im sure you have grown closer as a couple in other ways as well that makes up for that. I suggest if anything, just talk to your partner about this, he will understand and if he loves you, he will try new things with you, to get the excitement back that you crave. Good luck, i wish you and your man the best! (Hopefully things with me and mine will be okay as well.)

Answer 2

try the SHOW it to the world Trick. (don't tell him before hand)Go into a public place in a skirt/dress no panties/bra. get about ten feet from him and flash some skin, then more and more progressivly until you are a long way off stop and give him the EYEFULL of everything at once. leave_____ and make him followyousoCloselyhecanslip insideyou frombehin D. Privacy is up to you.
stand behind him in line at a busyStore, reach around and jack his handle till he raises up for the suprizzzze of you in front of Him leaned over the cart for a fine finish remember not to wear to much under clothing, and a blousey skirt/dress will allow move movements. Amicro/mini will assure that others see it going on.
go to a clothing store and let him crawl into the racks to tickel your fanci-fanticies.
On the way home from church turn in the seat to press your Butt cheeks to the window while you provide driver distraction of choice. as he passes cars and trucks to get home and finish the project.
Spontanaity is the key to most mens boring lives.They won't start it due to respect for your space but if you do they will follow you to the source nearly every time.
I have had these Exp's more than once but it spoils them if I have to suggest them before hand.

Answer 3

It sounds like you need to create some spontaneity. Go shopping with him at Victoria's Secret and try on some sexy lingerie for him. When he tells you one he likes, pull him into the fitting room and have sex with him, quietly.
Or, go to a female strip club with him. After he is all worked up, take him to the girls restroom and give him oral sex. These two ideas should help spice up your sex life. Trust me, I've tried these with my girl and she loved it. She even had the big 'O' in each instance since it was spontaneous and dangerous.

Answer 4

boost it up a bit by getting some cute outfits and adding a bit more to it. Try planning a sexy trip, even a road trip, and spot different places along the way to get it on.
Sex doesn't always have to be a big shabang.. but if you have the opportunity to do it somewhere then let on the hint.

Answer 5

Go out somewhere nice, and take your panties off, and give them to him, in front of someone. Have him go commando, and you jerk him off in the movies! Find an apartment complex, that has a hot tub, jump the fence, and do it in the hot tub, then go back to your car, drive home, do it again. Be Creative! Read about places to go to - Top of a building in your home town! The possibilities are endless!!

Answer 6

Well, you know he's into sex in public places. Next time you guys get the opportunity, grab him and give him a very enthusiastic, very aggressive shagging. Lots of passionate kissing. He'll love it and it will be so unexpected!

Answer 7

Try sex toys, me in my husband where going through the samething. Sex was just not fun. Then i became a Pure Romance consultaint and started selling toys in evenally became intersted in them to.

Answer 8

A friend of mine had a similar problem with his wife and asked me what to do about it. After listening to his story, I told him that what the problem was that they were trying to have sex on a schedule. "Forget the schedule" I said "and just do it when you get the urge". I ran into him a couple of weeks later and asked him how it was going. "Great" he said. I asked, "Any problems". "Just one" he said, "We've been banned from McDonald's"

Answer 9

have u ever thought about staying at a hotel and just getting away. when-ever me and my hubby stay at a hotel when we r out of town we always make love and it seams to be more interesting because we r in a different place.

Answer 10

Just because you don't have sex outdoors anymore you think sex is getting boring? Try different positions, use toys, roleplay, talk dirty, the list is endless.