Could I please have mature answers? Okay so it's this guy who's been staring me down for about three months. I know he likes me at first he would speak and then turn his head now he acts nervous when he sees me and he will drop is eyes or turn away when I see him staring. All he does is stare. So how long will a man do this before he will finally approach a woman. I like him I think he's cute and I would talk to him if he came to me, but since he's the one that notice me first I think he should be the one to come to me, not the other way around. So if you like a woman but was too scared to approach, how long would it take you to get over this fear?
2007-02-14 07:36:40 · 18 answers · asked by dreamee 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's obviously having a hard time trying to get up the courage to talk to you. If you like him and find him cute the try making the first move yourself. He'll probably be shy at first but that's because he would probably never believe a goddess like you would ever find him attractive. Ask him out for a soda or a quick lunch and keep dropping hints that you like him too. Once he's comfortable, he'll be putty in your hands.
2007-02-14 07:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Batdan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask for mature answers, but ask an immature question. If you like him, go talk to him. Don't sit there and wonder why a guy is starring at you for 3 months. If he's staring at you that long, could there be something wrong with him?
2007-02-14 15:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just really shy and it is hard for them to approach a woman. Why dont you try talking to him if you have an interest? Even if its a simple lunch or coffee, chances are this will open him up
2007-02-14 15:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This very thing happened to me. Oh I can remember it she was beautiful I knew she liked me but all we did was stare at each other. I never went up to her I am regretting it everyday. Finished college and we both went our own ways I don't know where she ended up?? I sure wish I did!!! Don't be that way say little things like hi. Smile help put him more at ease. I'm sure your beautiful and your making him nervous that's what it was with me. She was freakin gorgeous I couldn't talk around her felt so stupid. Do it do it for love do it for me
happy Valentines Day good luck
2007-02-14 15:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am exactly this way because I am very insecure. I have trouble talking to women unless I can tell they have interest in me as well. I just have a monumental fear of rejection.
Try to initiate contact on a friendly basis- that's usually all I need before I grow a pair.
2007-02-14 15:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by AlexM138 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forever, If a guy don't have the guts to do it initially then the chaces are he won't build them up anytime soon. So unless you make a move it will never amount to more than staring
2007-02-14 15:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by That Kid Zinc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could wait till he grows up
that could take a few years.
or you can go over say high and fix the problem
or you can go on wishing he;d come over and faint
but like i said with some guys it takes a few years
so go forth and capture
or sit and wait and procrastinate.
your choice if you want a date.
2007-02-14 15:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, not very long... but some guys are real dipsticks around pretty women... some NEVER open their mouths, and they lose the girl... if you like him, give him a reason to talk to you...
2007-02-14 15:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Buck Silvaback 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never, this person has a phobia of women. You better make the first move or nothings gonna happen.
2007-02-14 15:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay You should approach him and tell him you like him or give him a note saying i like you. you cant be embarassed by this u just do it
2007-02-14 15:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by pedro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋