There is this girl I like and I really want her. The only problem is that she doesn't even know I exist. What do you think about this idea: I send one of my friends to "harass" her and basically mess her up a bit. When it gets a bit confrentaional, I jump in and kick his a_s. Basically be her "hero". What do you think of the idea and if you disagree give me something else to do to make her notice me.
2007-02-14 07:30:58 · 12 answers · asked by stranger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bad idea... she'll figure it out sooner or later, and she won't like feeling like she was played. Just talk to her. Let her know you exist. Pay attention to her. Be nice, be funny, be sincere.
2007-02-14 07:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by selena n 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's a terrible idea when it's used for tv or movies, imagine how much worse if you use it in real life. Honestly, the girl will probably be able to see right through you. If you really like her then try to get to know her and let her get to know you. It may take a while but if you two are right for one another it is about the only way to make things last.
2007-02-14 07:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by yoyomama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, what happens when she finds out that the person harassing her is a friend or acquaintance of yours? What happens if she decides to press charges? Or has a gun?
I think you should take note some of the things she is interested in, and talk to her about them. Like, if she likes animals or a certain team or just pop up somewhere she usually hangs out. Do NOT stalk her in doing so! What worked for me is I aksed a girl what her favorite flower was because I was getting some for my mom *LIES!!! ALL LIES!! But still sounds sweet* and then deliver some to her with a thnk you note attached and your number if she wants to hang out.
2007-02-14 07:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by hell hath no fury 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in the 6th grade? Even so, this is a stupid idea. Just try to be a good friend. Something may come of the friendship, but it is likely nothing will. One day the right person will come along when you mature.
2007-02-14 07:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way man! Its like the new doritos commercial where the guy gives some girl a cheesy smile and crashes...She boldy runs in the middle of the street to help him but trips and hits her head on his car. XD; lol anyways dude, Just try talking to her, try to be friends so she can get to know u. Then you don't know where things can end up 8^-^8
2007-02-14 07:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by primalterozi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abort! abort! abort! not good. you dont need to be a girl's fake hero, to call her attention. why dont you give her something nice, maybe a homemade gift? say hi to her one day out of the blue is sure to call her attention, espcially since she doesnt know you exist. but son, that plan of yours is doomed to fail.
2007-02-14 07:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way, just go talk to her!she may be the type that likes bad boys and want to date your friend
2007-02-14 07:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her you won't want to scare her, just talk to her, get someone to introduce you if you can't do it alone.
2007-02-14 07:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by m cheryl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will notice you if you just walk up to her and introduce yourself - if you do it your way and she finds out you look like an idiot...just be a man, go for it...good luck.....
2007-02-14 07:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good way to start a relationship......./sarcasm
2007-02-14 07:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lost and Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋