Signs of a cheater...?

Question

How can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

Answer 1

If you feel that he is changing you let him know and you talk things out with him.

Answer 2

Hi
There are many signs to be aware of for starters a change in appearance , strange behaviors ( stop calling , or not seeing you regulary . Making excuses all the time as to why he can not see you or has not called and last but not least wanting to try new positions when it comes to sex . My past experience when my last relationship ended when he decided he did not want to be in a relationship with me anymore . It hurt but in the long run , it served me well because now he wants me back and I have moved on . If you suspect your BF of cheating the last thing you want to do is accuse him because he will only turn it around on you . Talk to him about how you feel and why you feel this way and see what happens .

Take care
C

Answer 3

You need to look up signs of cheating on the net that would be a huge help but I would say the first signs would be not answering your calls or hiding there phone when you are around or keeping the phone silent

Answer 4

There is no positive way to tell if your boyfriend is cheating on you, but here are some possible signs:

Hesitating before answering your questions
Lying about where he was or with who
Taking private phone calls
Calling you less
Talking to you less
Rushing around suddenly
Asking to go over your place instead

Answer 5

I am a guy and i will tell you the truth. In the case of guys it is very easy to tell when they cheat. The main sign is a drastic change in attitude,if all of a sudden something has changed in him and he begins to act sketchy in most cases it mean sthat something is up,ask him directly and see his reaction, if he is too abrupt in denying that he did something then he is likely to have done it. Another good way is to keep track of what they tell you, if he says he is going somewhere always remember where he told you he was going then ask him two weeks later and see what he says,many guys are not good at remembering their lies so they tend to forget important details. Nevertheless a direct confrontation is always the best because they are forced to lie to your face and guys are not very great at lying, they always leave a trace. good luck.

Answer 6

You've been together several months, but something doesn't feel quite right with your partner. You start wondering if he or she might be having an affair. Is it jealousy, your imagination or just apathy that is the result of long-term complacency with each other? It can be hard to tell sometimes, but when in doubt go with your gut and look for the following behaviors that might mean your mate is having an affair.

Oddly, your partner might be having an affair if he or she is acting MORE attentive than usual to you. If you are suddenly showered with gifts and compliments in what almost seems like an inappropriate manner, then he or she might be trying to make up for guilty feelings.

Look for a sudden change in your partner's routine. Is he or she staying out a lot longer than usual, not showing up for dinner or unaccountable at times for his or her whereabouts? If your partner suddenly alters his or her daily habits that too can be a sign of cheating.

If your partner is frequently picking fights with you, that might also mean big trouble. The emotional logic behind this is that picking a fight gives him or her to an excuse to fly out of the house and possibly into the arms of the third party. That way the cheating partner can deny guilty feelings and blame you instead. If you are not to blame, a cheater will create a reason to justify what he or she is doing to you.

Your mate might also become overly critical of you. This is part of an agenda that once again, gives them an excuse to leave or justify the affair. The guilty partner might also be overly sensitive to criticism from you as there may be a ring of truth that triggers guilty feelings that they would rather not face.

If every time you have fight your partner threatens you with ending the relationship, you might also have a cheater on your hands. Your lover feels safe with these ultimatums because they have another person as "back-up" should the two of you decide to split up.

Another sign of cheating is a consistent negative attitude towards the relationship and comments that make you feel as if you have an expiry date inked on your forehead. This might include saying such things as "I would like to travel next year." (with no mention of a "we") or "You know I will always love you, even if this ever ended."

If your lover becomes withdrawn and depressed, it could be that he or she is brooding about what they have done and can't handle the guilt. Sudden explosive displays of affection or anger can also be a bad sign, as the partner might be transferring emotional reactions from the infidelity onto you simply because you see each other more often. In other words, you may be the recipient of a mood that is not due to any of your actions at all.

If your mate becomes incommunicative and refuses to interact with you, this can also be a sign of cheating. He or she might seem cold or inconsiderate of your feelings and be less intimate with you in general. This kind of psychological distancing includes such behaviors such as locking the bathroom door when he or she has always left it open. They may also insist that they pick up their own dry cleaning or keep locked drawers. They may also insist on doing their own laundry. If he or she seems extra finicky about personal boundaries or seems to be trying to set new rules about privacy, this is also a warning sign.

Relationship experts say that if your partner's taste in clothing, movies or music suddenly changes, than they may be trying please their new lover.

Another sign of cheating is if your partner seems to be a bit over the top when cutting up or criticizing a person that both of you know quite well. This is a common tactic used to conceal an affair that leads you believe that nothing would ever be possible between the two of them.

Perhaps the biggest indication that you might be dealing with a cheater is if they stop acting as if they are a part of your life. They may lose complete interest in family, friends or following through on mutual financial goals or plans for the future. Your mate also might be reluctant to go out of town for any reason, as that might cause a crisis in his or her other relationship.

If you do discover that your mate is cheating, you are likely to go through the five stages of grief - shock denial, anger, sadness and acceptance. There is no underestimating the enormous impact of these reactions, even if you had a gut feeling that you knew about the affair all along.

Your relationship will also probably go through three phases. The first is the reaction to the affair, the second is the decision as to what to do about it and the last is a recuperation phase (whether or not you decide to stick it out with your partner in the end.) If your partner is willing to be part of the decision and recuperation phases, it is highly recommended that you seek marriage or relationship counseling to deal with the fall-out from the infidelity.

Hope that dis will help u in it.
By d way happy valentine's day 4u

TakeCare

Answer 7

Does he leave the room to take phone calls?
Is he absent when he would normally be around?
Is he being abnormally nice, or distant?
Does he smell like perfume?
Does he have lipstick on his colar?
Have you found female hair lying around that is not yours?

Answer 8

Ask him. If he gets mad and defensive, he's prob. cheating. If his habits suddenly change, if he's taking showers at weird times, and oddly enough, he wants more sex from you, he's feeling guilty. Trust your instinct, your body seems to tell you things before your head can figure them out.

Answer 9

prob if he seems to be ignoring you a lot..or if he seems to act a little guilty around you...
if you think he is cheating on you just ask him...make sure..you don't want to assume something and find out its not true at all..that could lead to worse htings..so ya..just trust your instincts and if he is..then ditch him..he obvioulsy doesnt care about you enough..and hes not worth seeing

GOOD LUCK. and hopefully he isnt =]
*megan*

Answer 10

well this is coming from a guy that cheated one and felt horrible about it. when i did i kinda distanced myself from my g/f and tried to avoid her. whenever we did talk i was very edgy and got mad alot when she asked questions. so yeah look for stuff like that...