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um hey.. id b reli gr8ful if u cud read n reply im really stuck... ok so thers this cute guy that i like, but hes reli shy.Hes in my french class ...I havnt eva followd him or anythin or even looked at him bcuz i thot it mite b 2obvious.L8tly ive noticed that hes been kind of starin at me in french. I didnt look out 4it i just noticed it cuz he sits behind me and so it isnt that clear. Weneva i turned around slightly, i wud check if he wuz reli lookin i caught about twice but the otha 100 times he looked down at his work totally ignoring me.a gd frend has also seen him stare and i believ her cuz shes a pro.but im neva sure bcuz outside of class he totally ignores me. plus not many guys hav liked me. weneva i hav my back turned 2him ,my frenz say he keeps gazin at me, but if i eva look at him he cant look me in the eye.i sed hi 2him just 1 time and he sed hi and stared at the floor.he alwys ignores me but he stares at me2 alot itz so complic8d.sry dredful ritin bad habit.plz answer!THX!

2007-02-14 06:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by confuzzled 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Wow! I'm just like you described that guy. I'm shy, I can't look the girl I like straight in the eyes, and I do look at her alot when she isn't looking. I keep hoping she will make the first move, and if this guy is anything like me, he's probably doing the same thing. So I think, if you really want to, then you should make the first move. I'm sure he will be very happy to know you like him.

2007-02-14 07:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Nate 2 · 0 0

omit to him and grab his butt. Who recognize the way it is going to ensue. you may want to no longer opt to do precisely that, although the point is that if neither of you takes a danger to talk or act in the direction of the different no longer something is going to ensue. so that you ought to ask your self, which do i want more desirable, no longer something, or him. in case you particularly do opt to be with him, you ought to step out fringe of your convenience zone and frame of mind him, possibly even as in elementary words both of you're round, (if you're that shy,) and say, "hi, i'm shy so that's hard. (then only blurt it out as quickly as you may so that you do not loose your nerve.) i love you." Then in case you particularly ought to, go away. That way you took the first step, and the hardest area is over. with any success he will recognize that it really is his turn to act or say something. issues might want to pass slowly if you're that shy, yet in case you particularly like one yet another, it might want to easily be nicely worth it. in case you may, stay when you blurt out your thoughts, this can provide him an chance to assert something, even though it might want to also seize him off guard and he might want to be speechless, so if he starts as an example purple, turn round, take some steps, then turn decrease back and be particular he will no longer say something. then go away so he has a danger to regain his composure.

2016-11-03 11:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I think he probably does. You might want to break the ice by talking to him about French class or something else you have in common.

2007-02-14 07:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ok so i know that when i liked my g/f...well b4 that even happened i used to talk to her alot like ALOT and then i realized how amazing she was and i really liked her. i got really shy alot and had a hard time talking to her. she asked me if i did and i told her how i felt and we ended up getting together and it has been my BEST realationship ive ever had!

2007-02-14 07:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by OMG WHERE ARE THE COWS!!!!! 1 · 0 0

1. Someone who sees the best in you.

If you were lucky enough to grow up with healthy parents, you have experienced the feeling of having someone who has always looked at your good qualities. Many of us missed that experience. You will be a lucky person if you have found a mate who is always looking at your 'silver lining'. Too often today people are more than willing to judge you by your errors, not by your potential.

2. Someone who gives you the benefit of the doubt.

There are so many times in your life when you need that little edge, that little opportunity to take just that extra step. It can seem as if your efforts are going nowhere and although you want to keep moving forward, there are so many negatives staring you in the face. That person who knows things could go either way for you but takes that leap to believe you will make it is the person who is more valuable to you than gold.

3. Someone who watches over you.

You need a guardian angel who is there, waiting to catch you if you fall, ready to help you when you stumble, ready to pave the way for you when you cannot get moving. There are people who love you who do just that. There are people who do not make a big deal out of saving your bacon. Do you know who they are?

4. Someone to watch you back.

You never know these days who is waiting to catch you off guard, to make sure you don't do well, to sabotage your efforts. You like to think that people will rejoice when you

do well. Many don't. If someone 'has your back' and runs interference for you when you are trying to run the gauntlet through life, give that person a big 'thanks' plus lots of your attention.

5. The person who tells you we all make mistakes.

You hate to be around that judgemental, harsh person who reminds you, 'I told you so', when things so south. You don't need anyone else telling you what you already know. On the other hand there are people who just let you know that the only way any of us learn is through experience. When you have really ended up in the dumper and blew it, stay close to the one who knows that the person who hasn't done anything wrong hasn't done anything much.

6. The person who gives you advice from the heart, not from the head.

When the situation gets rough and some big decisions need to be made, it's fine to have people outline the pros and cons of a problem and give you 'head' answers. But if you need a nudge sometimes to tip the scales, you always listen to this person who knows you must do what will let you live with yourself and have self respect.

7. The person who won't be the 'yes man' who agrees with you

No one who loves you is going to give you the green light and tell you to let er rip if it's clearly going to be bad for you. It's sad that often you surround yourself with people who tell you what you want to hear. The one who loves you will tell you to get help for a drinking or drugging problem, to stop the extramarital affair, and to be a good and decent person.

8. Someone who tells you to knock back, smell the roses, and enjoy life part of the time.

If you are a person who is a real performer and doer, there are likely to be people around you who enjoy the fruits of your labor and want you to do even more. Sometimes you may even see yourself as only valuable when you are giving, doing, and performing. Listen to the person who tells you that life is short and you need breaks and some R&R. That is the person who is looking out for you and your health.

9. The one who smiles at you and means it.

The person who loves you looks at you with eyes that smile and mean it. Too many people give you that slick smile, that quick pat on the back, and then forget that you even exist.

The eyes are the windows of our soul and you can read into a person's smile if it is saying, 'You are a fine person and I want to be with you as long as possible'. Don't fall for any phony smile that attracts you off in another direction, only to leave you stranded and alone.

10. Someone who sees you as beautiful, inside and out.

You know you aren't perfect. There are only too many examples of you looking around and thinking that you have flaws and aren't like the people on television. The person who loves you sees you through eyes of acceptance with no conditions. As you gain a few pounds and your hair gets thin, the person who sees you as attractive, inviting, and appealing is the person who loves you all the way, no strings or demands.

Nowadays, it's really important to know who loves you. Everything in our society is throw away, and many people have carried that over into the most important relationships in their lives. Think hard and look carefully. People who love you , like comfortable clothes, are easy on the heart, mind, and soul.

Hope dis will help u........

2007-02-14 07:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe he's too shy to make the first move. maybe you should try because there's no telling when he will get up the courage to do it

2007-02-14 07:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by superstar 3 · 0 0

I would say yes.

2007-02-14 07:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by clueless 2 · 0 0

Yes......

2007-02-14 07:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0 0

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