I have been dating someone for a few months now, he always pays for me dates, open doors, is very respectful and he hasn't even called me on valentines day or sent a card, is that usually sign that it is just a friendship and nothing more? Thank you.
2007-02-14 06:57:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he also mention the only gifts I would like is on my birthday or christmas, and what do you think of valentines day, is it for only women or just for men or both? what does this usually mean?
2007-02-14 07:32:45 · update #1
Men are constantly communicating how they feel about a woman and giving away big secrets about themselves. Most women don't pay attention to these signals or recognize them for what they really are.
The signals men send have 4 main levels:
1) Social: Where the man is at in his own life - stability, confidence, direction
2) Emotional: Whether or not he's “emotionally available”
3) Physical: If he's attracted to you... and for what reasons
4) Love State: If he's open to building and growing a relationship in the future
You need to learn to recognize these signals to get anywhere serious with a man.
VERY RARELY will a man be able to honestly communicate to a woman whether or not he's ready or capable of developing a meaningful relationship.
If you don't know how to read through the signals men send, then you'll get the wrong message.
But if a woman communicates that she's looking for a guy to take care of her, complete her, make her whole, and all that kind of stuff - it has a VERY negative effect on what the man will think of her.
It doesn't have to be spoken by the woman either...
If a woman thinks or feels this way, the man will see it and pick up on it, regardless.
This is arguably the worst thing a woman can do early on when dating a man.
What to do if you're in a situation where you like a particular guy, but you don't know if he likes you back.
DON'T GET HEAVY WITH HIM.
Don't buy him a big gift, do something nice to show him how much you think about him or write him a love letter...
Don't call him several times, without hearing from him.
And DON'T CONFESS YOUR LOVE for him.
If you want to know how he feels about you, do something to ATTRACT HIM and see how he reacts instead of telling him you love him and hearing the crickets chirp as you wait for his response.
As a rule of thumb, don't get heavier than HIM.
2007-02-14 07:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Martin Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he sounds broke and lame! He probably has another woman and he couldn't afford flowers/candy for you both.
2007-02-14 07:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sin Sister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he likes you. maybe he is planning a suprise for later
2007-02-14 07:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,valentines day isn't over yet!
2007-02-14 07:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋