I met my EX about 3 years ago when I was visiting friends in California. I had just graduated college and she was a Sophomore at school in Arizona, and we instantly hit it off. I work for an airline in Texas, so we could fly for free. We made plans for me to visit her a month later, and our relationship blossomed from there. We dated long-distance for a little over 2 years, which was never an issue since she was only a 2-hour flight away so we saw each other every 2-3 weeks. When she graduated, she moved to Dallas so we could finally be together. Our relationship was very strong (never fought, always made each other laugh, travelled the world together) but she never found a "real" job in Dallas and ended up waitressing to make ends meet. She was lonely outside of having me (didn't know any friends yet) and confessed that she was having problems. The next day she decided move back AZ. She cried a lot when she said this. Should I give her time and make another run when she's happy?
2007-02-14 06:56:23 · 8 answers · asked by LostinTexas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep talking to her and try to work things out.
She misses her old home and it takes a long time to get settled in a new place.
2007-02-14 07:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when a girl
tells you not to chase after her
it means the opposite
but if you love her
then you would let her go
even if it causes heart break
maybe you guys will hook up again down the line
if you keep in touch as friends
your chances will at least be higher of getting her back
2007-02-14 07:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lionheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u guys have a good relationship, she may just need some time to herself. Just be there for her when she needs u.. I hope everything works out!!!
2007-02-14 07:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sadly she has to live her own life. Having only a boyfriend to keep you happy and no fun job or friends or family is no way to live.
2007-02-14 07:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My coronary heart is going out to you. your relatives might want to not in any respect settle for him because they experience that he abused you...and he did because he replaced right into a lot older and also you've been a baby. you're saying, "grew to develop into sexual inspite of if we not in any respect easily had sex." i'm no longer particular what which ability. If he fondled our touched you in an irrelevant way, that's molestation. This replaced into actual abuse and emotional abuse. Why might want to you want to be in a relationship with a guy who abused you? sufferers of abuse now and again experience connected to the guy who abused them. you've thoughts for him, although that's no longer healthful that you ought to have those thoughts or to be with him. He replaced into in finished administration as an older guy with a baby. This replaced right into a relationship of dominance, and also you're nevertheless experiencing the outcomes. a sturdy marriage is a relationship of equals. you want to be in treatment that you ought to heal emotionally. you'll discover out what a healthful love relationship ought to look as if and experience like, that you ought to stay faraway from one of those relationship. Being in contact with this guy is ruining any form of treatment you had in the previous that helped you. might want to you be in a position to believe him such as your human being little ones or little ones in the community? i do not imagine so. newborn molesters are frequently situations repeat offenders. Sorry. This guy ought to particularly be in penitentiary. He might want to be hoping to marry you presently that you shouldn't in any respect testify against him.
2016-11-03 10:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, let her go......she may come back to you latter
2007-02-14 07:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..just give her sometime..if she loves you she will come back..maybe she just needs sometime to find herself..
2007-02-14 07:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's just time to let go
2007-02-14 07:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by superstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋