what dou do when you lyke your bfs best friend???
2007-02-14 06:55:46 · 16 answers · asked by emily v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever considered honesty and doing the whats right?
2007-02-14 06:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your BF before you ask the other guy out. If you do not and they both find out you like the other guy, then you will be on the outs with both of them and they will most likely remain BF and you will have to move on. If you really want the other guy then you have to break it off with the current guy and then have a cooling off time as not to ruin their friendship. I hope you do the right thing, so many time people do not and friendships are lost and people get hurt.
Good Luck
Tracylyn S
2007-02-14 15:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa what a harsh situation. I think that you should talk to your best friend and tell her the problem you're having and talk to her with the truth. And tell the boy or girl that you feel something and that it has to stop because Im sure you don't want to make your friend feel bad, the worst thing is that if you don't tell her now, maybe your friendship will be all ruined.
2007-02-14 15:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Vanessa. S.*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to either force yourself to stop liking him or break up with your bf and wait a while and then ask him out. Don't be too greedy because if you dump him and immediately ask the other guy out and he says yes then your -ex will get mad at you and him and you don't want to break up there relationship because of your greediness so don't do that.
2007-02-14 15:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You:
1) Tell your boyfriend's best friend that you like him and think you could get serious about him.
2) If he feels the same way, then you discuss how to break up with your boy friend and not totally ruin the friendship.
3) If he doesn't feel the same way, then you have to decide if you want to continue with your boyfriend (who wants to settle?)
Either way, you probably have to break up with your boyfriend, and do it before it gets serious with his friend.
2007-02-14 15:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by non_apologetic_american 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, u do not touch ur bf best friend, that is against the rules of reason. ull just eff up everything they have going and most lkely get them to both hate u eventually. do not touch
2007-02-14 15:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by shady_charisma15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, if u still like your bf then stay with your bf, if not then leave and ask your bf's friend out.
Also if they say no then it will b4 the best.
2007-02-14 15:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you resolve to make it a rule to never hurt someone by dating their best friend.
2007-02-14 14:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...if you like his best friend, you need to break things off with him.
2007-02-14 14:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brake up and ask your boy friends best friend out.
2007-02-14 14:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋