My wife went back to see her parents. Her family, father, mother and brothers live in an dangerous area, so they want to move to a better place. So my wife went to help them, leaving me with the two children. Her father is now against moving and threw her out of the house. She called me this morning to tell me that “she is not coming back until they move, and a hell with our marriage; the only thing important is she and her children”. Does that make sense? What is your opinion?
2007-02-14 06:53:02 · 10 answers · asked by Mark N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Nope, She has went off the deep end with her family.
It's there choice to move not hers
2007-02-14 06:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is confused right now. She is stuck with doing right by her parents and you and the kids. When women get angry they take it out on everyone else but not the source. She just can't leave her parents in a dangerous area/situation because they looked out for her when she was younger, she feels she owes them that much, u have to understand that this is hard for her and the things she says to u are only out of anger cause her father doesn't want 2 move, so it's easier 4 her 2 put the blame elsewhere. Have faith, things will be okay. Call her, talk 2 her, tell her how you feel, hell go to her...Love is powerful and make you do crazy things!
2007-02-14 15:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by MISSLADY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this but she sounds like a NUT case. You say her own dad threw her out of the house when she went there to help them move, yet she does not want to come back home until they move. Fellow if I was you I would tell her to keep her A** there. This will save you the trouble of eventually leaving her and paying Alimony. I would definitely try to get Custody of the Children or at least Shared Custody. She cannot Love you if she is treating you so badly. Your are suppose to be # 1 in her life now, not her parents... I wish you the best..
2007-02-14 15:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is a mess. She need to prioritize her relationships. If her dad threw her out of his house then why is she still there to help them? Where is she staying there and why would she not come home and go back when they are ready to move? I think you need to keep the kids with you and give your wife the boot. She is not able to put you and her family (the kids and you) first, then she does not deserve to have you all. I think she is see someone there or met someone there while you were at home taking care of your family. If that is the case cut her loose and move on, you will be better off for it.
Best of luck and I hope for the kids sake that my opinion is wrong.
Sincerely,
Tracylyn S
2007-02-14 15:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This makes no sense at all. Obviously your marriage has been suffering for other reasons that only you know. I would take care of the kids, and hopefully she will come back around. The important thing right now is the stability of your kids. Keep their lives in order and deal with their mother whenever and if ever she comes back. Good luck to you and I will say a prayer for you. You will need it.
2007-02-14 15:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing games with you, there is more to the story than what she is saying,how can she say that all she cares about is her children and then leave them with you while she is out doing her own thing? You are not with her all the time and you do not know what she is doing or what she is up to while she is trying to help her parents, if she wanted to help she would have helped them but what has that got to do with you marriage? Plus she told you herself that she does not care about the marriage much and that all she cares about is the kids,i don't know how your love life is but saying something like that is a sign thatt the marriage is in crisis and that things are not the way they should be...Personally i believe that something is up and that there is more to the story than what she is telling you,be careful.
2007-02-14 15:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by ericktravel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she left, not just to help them move, but to just leave you. There is always two sides to every story, but the truth to your side is; if she really thought the children were that important, she would have not abandoned them.
2007-02-14 15:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is crazy and not thinking for herself. You should take care of your children and keep them with you until your wife comes to her senses.
2007-02-14 14:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a wife should cleave unto her husband, she should not be with her family only you, she should defend you and be your partner in raisng the kids.
2007-02-14 15:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she trying to make a point.
2007-02-14 14:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋