How do you meet a girl when you're too shy??

Question

I'm too shy to talk to girls, and even if I wasn't I don't know the first thing to say to them. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Start by talking to girls that you dont find very attractive - just talk to girls as friends material first and slowly you'llget more comfortable talking to the prettier ones.

Answer 2

Don't approach them directly and make them feel awkward. Let it happen casually. You have to have a conversation connection before you ask them out. Here's my tip for you: Don't just say things, ask things. Asking questions is better because it takes the pressure off of you and puts the attention on her. If you ask, she will say something. If you say something, she doesn't have to respond. Keep your questions casual not invasive. Start with simple questions like "how are you?" If you are getting positive responses from her, keep going. There's a difference between being too shy and knowing when to stop. If she appears uninterested, try a more interesting question or say something funny. Don't fake anything, find your confidence within before you talk to her. They say that people know in the first 10 seconds if they are attracted to you. You will face rejection. In sales, they say you call 10, talk to 3 and sell to 1. That means for every 10 girls you will try talking to, 3 will respond and be interested in you, but only 1 will have an enduring interest in you. Don't let rejection get you down. Start talking to girls. The more you do, the better you will get. You may have to look at it as practice when it doesn't work out well.

Answer 3

Well first all you have to get out of that shyness stage. Get in the mirror and tell your self that you can do it and tell your self that you can make things happen. Think positive always never let your self down. The first thing you do is ask the girl in a politely way her name than ask if she has a bf. if she doesnt then you make your move. Ask her if she would like a friend to talk to and if she said yes than offer her your number to get to know each other better. And if she offers hers back take it and tell her have a nice day and you will be calling soon. After that wait later that night not after 10 and call her make a conversation ask her about her ups and downs than you go in for the win.

Answer 4

Shy is fine. But it is very easy to walk up to someone and say, My name is ....., what is yours? If she gives you a brush off, she is not interested, and nothing is lost, nothing to get upset about. IF she is interested, she will keep the conversation going. Girls know how to get a guy to open up. Most girls know that many guys are shy and need some help. Practice this once a day and soon, you will not be so shy. IT does take practice, and you need it.

Answer 5

this is called appraoch anxiety in the seduction community, it is a very common challenge, but there are lots of ways to solve it.

basically, you have put a girl on the pedastal, you value her far more than she is worth, and you build her up so much that in reality she will never live up to your expectation.

consider this, go out, speak to some old ladies, just talk, then eventually speak to younger and younger girls, then hotter and hotter girls,a nd eventually you appraoch anxiety will go away.


there are quicker methods but i cant be botherd to write them, jsut check the website.

Answer 6

take a deep breath, have a bottle of water in hand in case you feel faint, or are at a loss for words. Walk up to her and say, "Hey, what's up? I'm (insert your name here)." keep the conversation going slowly so you can workup the courage to talk to her. : D

Answer 7

your not shy, your just scared of rejection. just go ahead and talk to a girl, if she doesnt want to talk to you or shes giving you attitude, then its because shes just a ***** or shes up herself and not worth talking to.
i also suggest not meeting a girl online cos you wont be able to get to know them properly online, like they might be pretending to be someone theyr not.
as for the first thing to say, just say hi and say your name, then ask for her name

Answer 8

I DONT THINK THERE IS ANY MAN AS SHY AS ME, USUALLY I WOULD MAKE A FREN BREAK THE ICE FOR ME AND THEN I START WORK FROM THERE, BEEN SHY IS A MAJOR STUMBLING BLOCK IN APPROACHING SOMEONE YOU HAVE A CRUSH ON. I FIND THAT BY CALLIN OR WRITING NOTES EASES THE SHYNESS FOR ME

Answer 9

You just need to be straight forward and come out with the first thing that pops into your head okay. Be romantic and sweet. All girls like that!!.!!.!!..

Answer 10

Just walk up and say hi.... then u just ask sumthing like wats up? and start to talk and ask how theyre doing, and ask about them, like sports , yeah like that. Then it just flows. They'll start talking if they really want to talk to you, and there! the conversation has beguN! its not that hard really. Just walk up and say hi. B confident. u can do it if you try. It'll just flow.