what should i do about this guy i like alot?

Question

well there is this guy that i really like and he has a girlfriend and he likes me to but he has to pick between me and her and i just want him to be happy even if it is not me but it is to hard to see him at school with her and she just makes me mad cause he kisses him and is all over him and i am not the only one that thinks they need to show some selfcontrole on how they show that they like eachother but god i like him so much he is my every thing and i just want to be with him and i dont know what to do i need help so much!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

well... if he knows how much you like him already, he's the one who is going to make the decision. Just give him some time && don't be too overbearing because he'll make a decision without thinking and there would be a good chance that'd he'd stay with her. You already have a good outlook by saying that you want him to be happy even if it's not with you, that's very mature way of looking at things. Also, be careful, if he would pick you over his girlfriend, what if another girl comes along whenever he's going out with you? will he pick her over you? You have to be careful with guys like that && splitting up relationships is never good anyways because his girlfriend will be mad at you for "taking him" from her. I hope this helps && everything turns out for the good !

Answer 2

Tell him ONCE that you really like him a lot, and if anything goes unfortunately wrong with his relationship, you hope he'll think of you.

Then move on.

Also -- if you can't resist the temptation, you can every few months say "I still mean what I said before." But that's ALL.

Answer 3

i dont think you should wait around and wait for this guy obviously he still likes his girlfriend...move on sweetie, hes just making you look stupid by kissing her in front of you.