I need a little help to know what is going on...my ex which i haven't seen for like a year went to my sister's job and had a conversation with her... (dont take it the wrong way) anyways he is going out with one of my "EX best friends" and one of his best friends talks to me a lot about him....I was wondering why.... I mean I have a boyfriend already and its not like if I care or anything, but I was just wondering why the visit with my sis oh yea did I mention he didnt like her...So I don't know....I need some feedback
THX!
2007-02-14 06:50:58 · 8 answers · asked by sWeeTy PiE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well she works at a dealership, and they talked about cars and trucks that were there, but he asked her about me...he asked how i was and what i was up to. But he knows i have a boyfriend
2007-02-14 07:08:46 · update #1
obviously he isn't over you, and since he is dating one of your ex friends, it seems as if he is comparing her to you. if you are happy with the relationship you are in, don't even re-open that can of worms with your ex. it sounds like your ex best friend doesn't compare to you in his eyes.
2007-02-14 06:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by detroit_tat2man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to second guess any reasons, and don't let anyone here fill you with reasons...this amounts to a hill of beans. Your sister can take care of herself, you are doing very well, so just assume the ex is nuts. I think your assumptions may be correct. It could be as simple as he was in the building or area, and just dropped in to say hello. IF he pumped her for info about you, that is another story. Ignore the issue completely, it is not worth your getting on edge or anything else.
2007-02-14 14:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best revenge on an ex is to have a happy life and let your ex know through a third party that you are dating again and happy. That is probably what he is doing because he has a little lust for you or at least a little bitterness.
2007-02-14 14:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by wassupmang 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like hes gathering ideas and information on how best to fix things back between you two. Either his friends do not respect that you have a new BF,or they think its temporary. Call him and give him the question! It can't hurt to ask.
2007-02-14 14:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by ashlan_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your sister what they talked about. I would not jump to any conclusions, but why do you care? If it was really over you would not care who he talked to or why. I think there is something left in this relationship for both of you. Either get back together or forget him!
2007-02-14 14:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him see you excited about the situation, because it sounds like you are. Knowing guys, he's probably trying to get a reaction out of you--just for the hell of it. Never let him see you sweat. Take Care!
2007-02-14 14:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's trying to hook up with her
2007-02-14 14:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's trying to get to you, pay him no mind
2007-02-14 14:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by nichelle b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋