she ended it just over a week ago shes 16, im 19!
Said she doesnt feel the same towards me no more and has been thinking like that since november.In the last 4 weeks we were 2gether,I was thinking I dont know what I want. All we done towards the end was stay in and do the same thing over and over.
I just keep thinking there is more to the break up-like its just an excuse. she broke up with me on the sun, yet the fri night we spent the night 2gether un it was amazing. Sat day she phoned me and txted me off her own back like everything was fine. then we had a lil argument sat night. met up with her sun and she dropped the bomb shell. Said she didnt love me know more and didnt like me in that way.
I duno what to think. its messed me up alot and Im thinking her age was the main factor. We'd been 2gether 2 yrs and had many happy times
I still want her back and can get her out my head. i just cant believe I didnt see any signs. We have twice since met up and both said no one else is as
2007-02-14 06:48:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
close to us as eachother- not even are mates. I just dunno if its all a lie on her behalf. meen over x-mas and my bday ( end of december) she spent over £200 on me. if you dont like someone and is gonig off them. you wouldnt do that surely.
It hurt alot when I saw her as she said she hasnt missed me and doesnt want to get back with me. I said things would change like I realise I was being off towards the end and would do anything to get her back. I just miss not doing things with her and jsut want to hold her again.
She seems to be living her life fine and doesnt seem to be bothered.
I left it that I would give her space and that for her to get in contact with me. She said she def would but I just dunno If i can just be firends. to much as happpened and I feel way to much for her. Meen some blokes walked her home the other night and I was so jealous when she told me. funny thing is im not the jealous type really. Dont worry though I aint no stalker or that. just in love and hurting
2007-02-14 06:52:35 · update #1
so should I remain friends with her? i do still care for her and she says the same. Its just werid atm thats all. i know people say her age bla bla bla. but hses more mature than some 20 year olds. plus she was right for me and thats what counts.
2007-02-14 07:03:37 · update #2
when your 14 years old
and only been with one man you relay haven't experience life at all.
You say your upset that she left you >
you should be proud of her to have enough sense to make this huge decision on her own. , give her some room and let her live a little, if she really loved you she will come back, but if not it was never meant to be, a fine young man like you could easily find another person to be with, just look back of your time with her as a most wonderful time wish her well and tell her that you would still like to be friends, don't make her hate or fear you, she sounds like a wonderful person as you do,
Hope things work out,
if not its all about life.
sometimes it rocks
and sometimes it stinks.
2007-02-14 07:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by t-bone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for you to feel the way you do - you've been with her for 2 years. It is going to take time to stop thinking about her and she may even pop u pin your head years from now - it's normal and it doesn't mean anything special. People you meet in your life will pop up from time to time for no reason at all.
I would trust what she's saying. She may have tried to make things work because it's easier to stay with the one you're with than it is to find a new love. Yeah, she's a bit young for you.
You'll be okay. Get these things off your chest. Talk with your Friends - don't keep it in. The more you talk about it, the less it will bother you when you're not talking about it. In a few weeks, or maybe months, it'll be like a bad dream.
Good luck.
2007-02-14 06:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 when I met my Husband he was 21, I now realised since splitting up had he of left me to have the time out I asked for we still might have been together! Not just him to blame in the break down, but when I asked for time on my own after a few months together well lets just say it wasn't what he wanted and at that age I just backed down him! Maybe if you give her time and space to sort her head out she will come back....I know its not easy but doing that I think you have a better chance of yous giving it another go! Good luck.
2007-02-14 07:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be fair, girls mature faster than boys - mid teen years girls start really thinking about their life, not the next week. She perhaps is seeing something in you that isn't what she wants forever. Rather than string you along, she's letting you go now so you can each move to something that is better suited for you.
I had the same issue at 16, dating an older guy. One of the things that concerned me was why he couldn't find someone his own age and had to be with someone years his junior. 3 years isn't alot after the college years, but at this stage in life - it's a ton!
2007-02-14 06:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on...she is too young to make any kind of committment to you or anyone else. AND this is jail bait, regardless of who tells you what. Are you nuts? No matter what she says today, she will feel differently tomorrow ... that is called being 16. Let her be, let her experience life as a 16 year old. 16 year olds do NOT sit at home all the time. Good grief, you don't sound like much fun at that.
2007-02-14 06:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though u r having mixed emotions w/him b/c u r still in luv w/the last guy. U can't make ur new guy suffer b/c of the guy be4 him. First u got 2weigh ur options. If u can't find nething wrong w/dis guy then most likely u got 2view urself. If when u r w/this guy & he makes u happy when u r 2gether, then when he leaves u feel bad again cuz u'r missing the other guy, then u got 2let him know that. But 1st u got 2make sure that ur decision is the right one. U don't wanna let the good man go just b/c u still miss the other one.
2016-05-23 22:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex means past.
it'll take time to get your head round it but if she doesnt feel the same you shouldnt trap her into something she doesnt want you will make her hate you.
you are both young so go out with your mates and get talking to other women. you dont have to do anything.
see your mates and have a laugh.
as for the money thing my ex spend a fortune taking me on holiday to a 5* hotel in the gran canaria and he dumped me the week we got back. i didnt ask for the holiday and he insisted i go and he wouldnt let me pay for a thing. some people do it so they dont feel as guilty when they dump you.
2007-02-14 06:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes still a little girl, go out with your mates. You sound abit like my brother hes twenty and hes girlfriend is 16. She messes with hes head i think they like the attention of you running back every time she clicks her finger.
2007-02-14 07:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by ryan+reegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard and you might think "Yeaha, just because your not going through it, it's easy for you to say", but look take my advice, if she has broken up with you may it's time for you to really realize what you really want in life, also, there's someone for everyone that will appreciate you, it might not be now, but sooner or later it will happen. : )
2007-02-14 06:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you but I suggest you find someone else.
She is not the right girl for you & you will get over it quite quick.
Don't worry & when you meet someone I suggest that you do different things like going for walks by the river & visit places. look to do different things.
Best wishes & good luck
2007-02-14 06:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋