I miss my mom.. help?

Question

my mother pasted away two months ago and I miss her so much. I know that it will never end. I am 30 but I feel like a 5 year old. I guess that I am just talking. I know that there is no one to make it better.

Answer 1

Of course it's gonna take time. two months is hardly enough time to get through that. And I say through, because you will never get over it. You can take comfort in knowing that she is in heaven right now watching over you, and she isn't suffering, or dealing with pains and bad things of this world ever again. She will never know anything but love and happiness forever. That will comfort you, I hope. If you need to talk, I am here.

Answer 2

I may not know exactly how you feel, but close. I lost my best friend a year ago. I miss her so much it hurts sometimes. But trust me over time it gets better. I know your thinking yeah right, but shes in a better place. You have to think of what might be better for her, no matter how bad the pain is. You mom wouldnt want you to mope around thinking about the past. Shes still your mom youll never stop missing her, but you will eventually get to where you miss her, just not as bad. The first few moths are the worst. I cried myself to sleep. The only thing i can tell you is let out your hurt and pain, dont keep it inside you. Talk to someone, you will feel a lot better.

Answer 3

I am 24 and I lost my father to lung cancer 3 years ago and I still cry almost every day about it. I have been where you are. You should find someone that you feel close to to talk to about it. Everyone grieves differently and some people get over things quicker than others. Time will make things less painful, but it will never completely do away. It helps to look at old pictures and things and reminisce with other people who knew your mother. It lightens the mood and makes you realize you aren't alone in your feelings and that your mother touched many lives and will be missed by alot of people. I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 4

It just takes time. I lost my dad, Monday made a year, and I felt the same way. Visit her grave often to help you work through the loss. Then know that she is in a much better place then what she was here on earth. Your first holidays without her will be tough and if something drastic happens in your life, you'll wish she were there for her advice and comfort. I didn't cry on the day it made a year because I don't want to remember the death but, the life is what you should remember the most. The life and memories you and she had here together will stay with you forever and that is what ultimately will help you work through your grief.

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I miss my mom.. help?
my mother pasted away two months ago and I miss her so much. I know that it will never end. I am 30 but I feel like a 5 year old. I guess that I am just talking. I know that there is no one to make it better.

Answer 6

I am so sorry for your loss. I understand as I lost my mother and father two years ago. The loss of a loved parent is major, and even though it seems like it will never end. . . . well, there is some truth to the saying that time heals. You may not get over the loss, but it will hurt less as time goes by. Please understand that your grief is part of the healing, so go with it and let time do its work. Also, please think about joining a grief support group. Most hospital, mortuaries, churches, and crisis centers have them or can refer you to one. It will be a big help for you to be able to talk with others who have experienced the loss of a loved one. Try to do this soon.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

It is hard to believe it when you are in such a state of grieving, but time heals all wounds, at least almost completely. You WILL feel better in time. I feel for your loss. Remember the good times, even if they make you sad. Remember that we all pass away, and you were lucky to have her for 30 years, although 80 would have been much better. Hang in there. If you get to feeling suicidal or can't cope, go see a mental health professional.

Answer 9

It's hard losing your parents. I lost both of mine within 2 weeks. it takes a long time but as the days pass it gets easier. YOu never forget or stop missing them but it does get easier.
Be strong and remember the good times that you spent together. It makes a huge difference in your life when that one person that you know loved you unconditionally is gone. My life has never been the same, it changed my personality. That was 7 years ago. Good Luck to you.

Answer 10

I am so sorry you have to go through this. When someone so close to you passes away it is so incredibly painful it's hard to describe.

When my dad passed away, I never thought I'd get through it. It helped to talk about good times, and all his wonderful qualities. If you have siblings, talk with them. If not, talk about her to any friend that will listen. I find that when I think about how wonderful they were, it makes me feel closer somehow...What I still remember was that months after Dad passed away, I was filled with an awe that somehow I had actually survived an event I'd dreaded since I was little. I'd actually survived.

And you will survive too. Write a journal if that helps, and remember, it's ok to cry.

Answer 11

So sorry to hear about the passing of your mother! ~huggs~ I lost my dad back on July 4, 2005....and I thought I would never get over it, but with time, believe me, it gets better. I had so many people to tell me, with time, it will get better. I honestly thought, you have no idea, you still have both of your parents. I felt so all alone even tho, I have a hubby and 2 children. All I wanted to do was sit by dad's grave. I felt just like how your feeling now, that it will never end. I promise, with time, it will get better. I don't know the situation of your mother's passing, meaning, was it her health, or all of a sudden......but my dad was very sick, he had heart disease, diabetes, was blind due to diabetes, had 2 amputations due to diabetes, CHF (congested heart failure) and a couple months before he passed, he had a scope done and a tumor was found at the end of his esophagus which was cancer. I said all of that to say this....after my dad's death, there was time I questioned why my dad?? I'm only 39 yrs. old....I have a little girl that he will not get to see grow up, but was very thankful at the same time, because he got to see my son grow up, but still could not understand and I just kept saying, "why me"??? "Why my dad"???? I had soo many questions as to why this and why that.....I know how you feel and I am very sadden for your loss of your mother......but in my situation, I finally had to just ask myself, "am I being selfish"?? Would I want my dad back in the shape he was in?? But I did not come to this outlook on his death till just recently. You said that you know there is no one to help, but it is! The Man upstairs, is a great person to talk to when you feel like on one understands what your saying!! He helped me alot! Just take one day at a time. It will get better! And I can only say this, because I have been in the shoes your in right now! God bless you! My heart goes out to you! :o)