I've been seeing my bf for around 9 months now.He's always treated me well,and apart from a few times,he's never behaved badly towards me.But the other night he really upset me,and was swearing and shouting at me and my friend,and then 'accidentally' poured wine over me,well he must be clumsy.anyway,at the same time my best guy friend told me he is madly in love with me.So today they both had presents for me.My boyfriend wants to meet with me tonight to 'sort things out'.He said via an email he is really sorry,and he doesnt know why he did those things.I wish i could forgive him,but i still feel so angry and upset.He's been crying in front of our friends making me look the bad guy,and he may have been self harming =S but i'm not sure.i feel like i cant forgive him just like that,plus my feeling foy my best friend are getting in the way,and it's driving me crazy!What do you think of my bf's behaviour?and what should i do now,or say to him tonight?
2007-02-14 06:36:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should have never acted like that and now he's acting like a baby. Do you want a guy or a baby?
2007-02-14 06:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's acting erratically, and possibly self harming. Sounds like he is unstable and needs help.
You said he's treated you well "APART FROM A FEW TIMES" which means he has not always treated you well. This type of behavior can become a cycle.
I would be afraid of what the future would bring with this guy.
I can't say what you should do about your other male friend. Make the decision about your bf first, and then based on the first, decide about the second.
2007-02-14 06:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way I would forgive him for an attack like that. I have a feeling that that could be his true nature. Drop him. The crying is typical of what abusers do to keep control of you. Then they get worse. Go for the new guy.
Tell the BF that you refuse to be treated that way. Once is enough for you. He will beg and plead but you have to stick to your guns. He is bad news. Walk away and keep going.
2007-02-14 06:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my view, Valentine's Day isn't an considerable holiday and your concept that each and each physique women like it is not any longer actual. i comprehend many women who do no longer like it. You did no longer point out despite if or no longer he likes the holiday, yet he has as lots of amazing to dislike it as you have the ultimate to like it. Regardless, i think of you're out of line for being dissatisfied b/c you have been making plans all of this in secret. Had you informed him to devise on spending the nighttime with you, then it would be a diverse tale, yet he did no longer comprehend you have been going to do a gaggle of stuff. you may additionally think of roughly why that's he volunteered to paintings on Thursday. Does he choose the extra funds? grew to become into he assisting out his coworker? grew to become into he averting Valentine's Day? All 3 of those would be sturdy motives to no longer get dissatisfied with him, yet extremely basically talk approximately it. make specific to allow him comprehend how considerable the holiday is to you. He seems prepared to paintings issues out. on the different, you look appearing obdurate. Your concept that that's an entire loss via fact issues are not going the type you deliberate is quite immature. it is on a Thursday nighttime besides, plan to rejoice it this weekend extremely.
2016-10-02 03:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
difficulties.... but how can u bear that y bf pour wine on u??he is rally immature to do this. about ur best friend, u should cope this matter very well, think if you like or love him or not. dont just go to choose ur best friend and leave ur bf behind just because u bf was so mad to you once. think carefully.. good luck!
2007-02-14 06:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by zara_mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋